I'm still spotting every single damn day with horrible cramps and headaches while taking care of and…

I'm still spotting every single damn day with horrible cramps and headaches while taking care of and breastfeeding an eight week old and chasing around a toddler who's energy levels are off the charts until he passes out for the night and my man can't seem to understand why I have no interest in sex. 😒 If it was just the kids then maybe I would. But this spotting has got to stop before I'm even going to think about giving him any. It just grosses me out to think about it. But he literally can't understand why I'm "being so difficult" since I got cleared for sex two weeks ago. Like I get that we haven't done it for months at this point but I'm just not up to it and I'm not trying to bleed on anything while trying to get busy. 🤷‍♀️ He's been overly touchy feely the past couple of days trying to get somewhere. Eventually hell give up but he doesn't seem to get why I'm not up for it even when I explain it to him.