Babies can’t be spoiled from being held .. that’s what they need .. once they get older and understand is wen u teach them that they can’t be held a lot 24/7

It's not your fault bc ofcourse you're going to do whatever to stop the whining. My bean is 6 mos and oh my goodness. On my days off he's gotta be on me constantly or he's fussing. Nursing, in my lap, in the carrier, held why i do chores, whatever. Its not your fault.

I don’t like Bumbo seats. They don’t look comfortable or safe. Have you tried a little bouncer seat? Both my kids did great with those