Hi ladies i need so advice and i don't know who to turn to. I started talking to this guy a couple…
Hi ladies i need so advice and i don't know who to turn to. I started talking to this guy a couple of weeks ago and he is pretty consistent with texting,calling and video chatting me everyday since he lives in a different city than I. He is so sweet and caring and he listens to me talk about my problems no matter how stupid it is. Well i have been through things in past relationships that makes it hard for me to trust anyone. Yesterday we talked for hours then i messaged him and i didn't get a reply for 4 hours. So when he texted me bk he said he fell asleep on me. We video chat last night and everything was fine. I usually wake up to a good morning text but this morning i didnt... I decided to eventually text him and he replied. I feel like i should fall back. Maybe im over exaggerating. I just need advise bc i have no one else to get logical advice from. What would you ladies do?
Mommy II·
Мама двоих (младенец)
How far is he from you? You say different city; have he attempted to meet up with you? Go with your gut, I say. Does he have kids? I understand the lack of trust you may be experiencing; however, it seems to me that he’s a pretty good guy with just a busy schedule. Give it time, but if the same pattern repeats itself, then I wouldn’t say you’re over exaggerating, and that’s when you should fall back and maybe it’ll create a change on his half.
🌸GoodVibeTribe🌸·
Maybe he’s just trying to fall back a little & let you text him first because he’s worried he’s the one bothering you. I’d say give him time it could just be things are coming up & happening making it hard. He sounds like a decent guy & like he takes whatever free Time he has to talk to you so it could just be how things are atm. If it continues or got worse then I’d definitely say to fall back a bit & then see what happens.
Laiya.·
Мама дочки (1 год)
He lives a hour away from me. We have made plans to spend this weekend together. He said he was waiting to see how long it would take for me to txt him since he always text me everyday. I try my best to trust him because he is a pretty good guy.
🌸GoodVibeTribe🌸··
Sounds like a reasonable response honestly. But I know it’s hard because past relationships weren’t good, but you can’t bring that stuff into the future relationships. It won’t do anything except ruin what could be a good thing. Stressing & worrying aren’t gonna help either & will push him away. Just gotta trust him until he gives you a reason not to. You torturing yourself with stress & worry won’t prevent it from happening, so you have to just trust & believe it won’t happen unless it does. The truth always comes out, so if something ever happened. Eventually you’re gonna learn the truth.
Laiya.·
Мама дочки (1 год)
You're right. Thank you for replying and giving advice
Sha·
It's a 2 way street. Maybe he was tired of being the one to text good morning first. I don't think you should fall back, just show a little more initiative but at the same time, allow him to chase you too.