My son slept with us in the bed when, he was a newborn nothing bad didn’t happened. I was breastfeeding so him sleeping in the bed with us was the best thing for me. I am a light sleeper so I can feel when him started moving. I plan on co-sleeping with our daughter, since we are going be breastfeeding.
I did, and still do. There are safe ways to do it. My son slept in a little bed to go in my bed. And I wouldn’t move, and my son still sleeps with me and I still don’t move. I mean I don’t move in general, but I because a mummy when i brought my son home. But even now, my son is the one who takes over my bed lol
I bedshare with my kids but not when they were newborns. My daughter slept in a cosleeper that went on my mattress and my son slept in a bassinet next to my bed. They slept apart from me for a month or two.
I did with all 3 of my kids but i did not move also did not really sleep since i brestfeed and was a very light sleeper any movement or noice i would wake up when they were that young.