So i live in apartment and we use to be really good friends with the neighbor upstairs we would hang out drink wine bbq together when she got pregnant for the second time i was there for her when she need it me my husband use to make her spanish rice cause she love that but once she had her baby i waited till it was ok to go see her upstairs and i took her a present for baby after that i would go every once in a while just not as much anymore i know that she wasnt getting as much sleep and i just didnt want to bother incase she was sleeping or napping cause i know every little min my son would fall asleep i would too. Anyway like 3 months ago they finaly got their house so they moved out we congratulated them and told them we were so happy for them she told me that we better not lose touch and that she wanted us to go visit them one day well i think now that one day is never going to come her husband had came to visit my husband 3days ago and it was his oldest birthday 5yrs we got invited for her 4th bday but supposly they weren't going to do nothing this yr but i come to find out that they did and i guess we didnt get an invite. Its kind of sad cause i thought we where friends but it just making feel like we're not good for them anymore since they have a house now so i think im just going to keep my distance and not talk to her anymore.