Auuugh I feel like the worst person in the world, I just found out the sex of my baby and I hate that there’s a part of me that’s disappointed in what I’m having. I’m just grateful to have a baby but I let my hopes get up too high for the other thing and now I’m trying to process that I’m gonna have a boy ❤️
It's ok love. Gender disappointment is a real thing but it goes away. I had 3 boys before a girl and Everytime I heard "it's a boy" my heart sank a little. I love my boys. I love having 3 of them and cant believe that I was ever upset. But it is real so dont beat yourself up about it
I wanted a baby boy so bad that when I found out my daughter was a girl I cried so much because I felt so awful for even insisting that I wanted a certain gender. God knew I needed my daughter first and here we are waiting for her baby brother to be born. God always knows when and who we need when we need them. You’re going to be so in love with your mommas boy. 💙
I wanted a boy again the second time, even though I knew deep down inside she was a girl lol and low and behold it was a girl. You'll have so much fun with a boy. I was scared if the thought to adjust to a girl, but I am way over the moon with her. She's my little princess. Which never in a million years would I thought I'd say that, she softened me up big time
We always want what we don’t have, I have one boy and wanted another boy for my second pregnancy and was kind of sad lol that I’m having a girl this time but I’m still grateful and happy & no matter what gender long as ur baby is healthy that all should matter, u will love ur baby boy unconditionally I love boys I wish I was all boy mom. Boys are awesome🤘🏽
Levi is our last baby ans my husband knew I wanted a girl so bad that when we left after finding out he actually asked if I was ok, I did eventually have a moment of crying bf because I was having another boy. But like the other mamas have said there is no love like that between a mom and her little boy! I wouldn't change it for anything! Don't feel bad about being disappointed most of us have been there. ❤💙
My first baby was a boy and now my last is a boy. I wouldn't change it for the world the best baby he was. He will be 4 on the 29th and the whole time even still this day the most lovable, cuddly, ol soul. He always rubs me and his daddy saying mommy i love you, kissing us, still crawls on us lets us hold him lol BEST FIRST BABY. Then I had my two girls and final will be a boy. I feel so blessed.
Nothing like the love a baby boy gives his momma!
But it’s ok you feel this way right now! It’ll change with time. Especially when you see that sweet face.
All of you guys are so sweet and so awesome! I spent the day thinking over my feelings and also contemplating why I was so upset about not having a girl.
But the truth is I’m relieved now with what I’m happy and I can’t wait to meet my son, thank you guys so much for being an amazing support system