I’ve seen so many pregnancy announcements lately and I’m happy for everyone, I am but I’m hurt and it makes me get mad at myself because I should be able to get pregnant, it’s something I should be good at, I’m a woman and I’m failing at even that 😭😭
I got pregnant with my first like it was nothing and we waited until he was two to start trying again and it took just under a year of trying for our second, I was upset and wanted to quit since it literally to no time to get pregnant the first time (I also have hypothyroidism which can affect fertility which I figured was keeping me from getting pregnant again) and I told my husband let’s take a break and I few weeks later I missed my period and I was pregnant.
I think stressing over it didn’t help either I would get so upset and angry every time I had my period my husband was getting nervous and wanted to stop trying until I stopped getting upset about it.
it took me 15 month of trying and i decided to stop for a little and
that same week i was like hmm where’s my period and bam pregnant now with twins!
i don’t think anything can really help when it comes to words of advice bc everyone is different. it was hard for me and it was hard trying for so long and just seeing so many negative tests.
baby dust to you! 🎇
Omg congrats on your twins, I’m so happy for you :)
And thank you, I hope it happens soon but as of now we’re not trying anymore, I guess we’ll just let it be
It took me 2 years to get pregnant! Right when we were about to give up...BOOM.
@tiredmomsince2016, I have a bonus child thankfully so I was able to get the best of both worlds.
I'm the same way! We've been tryin for awhile now and my sister in law just announced yesterday she's havin her 4th... I got so upset I'm happy for her and glad to be an aunt again but at the same time I'm upset cause I've been tryin for so long and nothing..
It’s very upsetting. We’ve never used protection and just nothing happens but some women get pregnant on the first try and I envy their fertility 😭😭
You are not a failure. I had 4 miscarriages. There are tons of women are struggling to get pregnant. Lady timer is alive with women around the world trying to get pregnant.