Curious as to if this was a form of abuse or a sign? We got into an argument and he started yelling at me to leave so I walked down the road strolling our little girl to let him cool off and came back to take a shower. I went into the bathroom and locked the door so he couldn’t come in and start back arguing but instead he starts beating on the door begging me and crying wanting me to talk to him because he “needed me”. This is the damage he done trying to get into the bathroom because he “needed me” and wanted me to “help him”. He claims he smacked the door with his hand but I swear I seen the door almost come off the wall when he hit it. I was scared to death that I actually set my phone in the shower on record to see if he’d get in and start something with me. My mom was in physically and mentally abusive relationships in my teenage years and I don’t want to go through that. This is the first time he actually scared me to where I didn’t want to be around him. It’s like he lashes out and cusses me wanting me to leave but then starts crying and telling me how much he needs me when I go to leave. Or he throws up I’ll be taking his daughter away from him. (Which I would and only allow visitation because I don’t want my daughter to grow up in that kind of mess and if he scares me you know he terrifies her when he acts like this.) I’m not the type to keep the fight going either I lock myself in a room and don’t communicate or I leave.