Please correct me if I'm wrong ..so me nd my mom raise my neice Because my sister chose drugs nd…
Please correct me if I'm wrong ..so me nd my mom raise my neice Because my sister chose drugs nd dick over her daughter .our job is now to make sure my neice is taken care of physically mentally emotionally nd has stability I don't want her growing up feeling bad for herself because her mom left so yess I'm strict nd she has to follow rules just my like daughter . meaning you Clean up your toys no talking back nothing major very easy.i want my neice growing up with the mind set you gotta work for what you want because nothing in life is free nothing will ever just be handed to her but it's hard when ppl go behind our back nd do exactly the opposite .my Tia nd tio live with us nd constantly do the opposite of what we're trying to teach her they allow her to lie not listen nd give her way simply be because they feel bad for her of course I have sympathy for my niece but I'm not raising her to growing thinking ppl are always going to feel bad for her nd just give her things . When she gets older I want her to know that even tho her mom left she still had the support she needed nd that she learned to work for what she had because she wanted not got her way because ppl felt bad for in reality nobody is going to feel bad forever ppl are eventually going to get tired of hearing the sob story of my mom left me . I just wish ppl understood more .am I wrong for wanting my neice to grow stronger from this experience
M. P. ·
Your not wrong at all. I mean that’s a crappy situation for a kid to be in, I’m sure she doesn’t understand where her mom is why she never sees her and doesn’t live with her. She can’t just get away with whatever she wants because she’s in a sucky situation again it sucks and there will be times she needs some extra love and someone to console her because this WILL bother her some day. I think you’re doing great. Maybe have a grown up family talk? Get everyone on the same page and put your foot down if you have to, because you don’t want to be punishing her for something other people are letting her think is okay to do. She’ll get confused because you say no lying and then she turns around and 2 other people are basically saying lying is okay.
cheyanne··
Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (18 нед.)
There are times she needs the extra love nd right there to to give to her that's my niece but now I see her as my own . I hope she grows to understand I wasn't being hard on her to mean but because I want the absolute best for her .
M. P. ··
I think at the end of the day when she’s older she will be thanking you for raising her so well.
sweetsap·
Nothing wrong with what you're doing. You're in full mommy mode, that's how children are raised, they must be taught right from wrong, they must be taught that their actions have consequences. You're doing a good job Auntie