First time where my daughters fathers family is seriously irritating the hell out of me. I hate…

First time where my daughters fathers family is seriously irritating the hell out of me. I hate anyone "claiming" my baby as in ours or theirs. Let me make this clear. Its MY kid. Yea you're related. But so what. So is my mom and you don't see her or any of my family doing anything that annoying.

Not to mention i dont like it because they arent all on my oldest son. Whos not related to them so i just hate they make a big deal and always want to spend time with the baby. On top of my daughters dad always calling his mom grandma to him. It just throws me off. My son is impressionable and i don't like he says that. Even calls himself dad. Just don't like it. We are already unstable and complicated why bring my son into it. Especially when i have mentioned stuff along these lines and they are ignored or im the bad one for hurting someone's feelings. Sorry but im not interested in anyones feelings on this but for my sons