I asked my husband for a back rub he goes let’s rub each other’s at the same time. WT? Anything I ask of him he has to turn it around and include himself. I don’t understand that. I hate that. Now I have to go pay for a man to rub my back. Oh and I lost my daddy last Monday. It’s like he’s not showing anytime of empathy STILL! I have to constantly try to find it in other places I’m so sick of this!
What did he say when you brought this up to him? Maybe he feels the same way you do and thats why hes doing the whole I'll rub yours if you rub mine?