So me and my husband have 2 boys already and we really want to try again for a girl but we are scared that we may have a boy. Don’t get me wrong I will love my child regardless of gender and pray that I have a healthy baby. But is it shamed upon or wrong for even considering going through gender selection which is part of the IVF process? I conceived my two kids fine naturally but we are willing to go through the process for a girl. No I’m not trying to play God but we will be done having kids after this PLEASE FEEL FREE TO COMMENT YOUR RESPECTFUL OPINION
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I’m glad you all are ok ....I want a healthy baby overall of course I’ll choose that anyway over gender but since technology is so amazing these days I don’t mind trying to increase my odds of having a girl , thank you
Have you looked into adoption? With agencies you can pick genders. My fiance and I planned to do this if we have a girl. We want at least one boy.
I wouldn’t mind adoption if I couldn’t have kids
Me and my husband have actually talked about doing this next time for a boy. After four we would be 100% done so it would be amazing to have a boy. I don’t see anything wrong with doing that if you can afford it.
@goodvibetribe, yes because boys get hard headed
It's your decision. I wish u luck with whatever u decide and hope either baby is healthy.
If you can afford it go for it. Personally I wouldn’t. Pregnancy and babies are crazy expensive then adding and even more crazy procedure just get a specific gender I just wouldn’t do it.
@kyenkenmom, so I asked my fiancé if he would be down to do this for a boy and he said he would aha but he also really wants a boy. Don’t let anything stop you if that’s what you want 🥰
@taylorsmommy, thank you and That’s how I feel about s girl lol
It's not wrong, You have two healthy boys and you want a girl there's nothing wrong about that, Do whatever you feel you need to do to have your little girl. And if it's a boy and you're upset it'll pass, I had three boys before my girl and I was upset with middle and youngest boys but it eventually went away and now I wouldn't trade them.
Thank you lol I just dont want to have more than 3 kids
@kyenkenmom I didn't either 🤦🏼♀️ My daughter was a huge surprise.
@mommyoffour., lol I would of been on the floor
It is but not too expensive if that makes sense, depending on how many embryos you want
@kyenkenmom just curious how much it is? This is the first I've ever heard of this
@massgirl, depending on which facility you go through and the number of embryos you get but I seen one for around 4500 with 1-2 embryos
I think if u got the money for it then Yes go for it my favorite youtubers did gender selection through Ivf for a girl after having 2 boys.. me personally I’m happy with what god gives me whether I’d be girl only mom or boy only mom but a lot of people go through the process
I will tell you this I have 3 boys and my son’s are very spaced out in ages with my 2 Nd son I kind of had a urge to want a girl but,had a son and planned my last baby at age 37 yrs old I was 4month’s pregnant when I was in car accident that Totaled my car on scene and was rushed to the ER at that moment I no longer cared to have a girl knowing I had 2 healthy grown son’s , As my car spun into the other lane I can see my son’s faces in mind and all my 12 airbags deployed I hit my head as well when I awoke I was wondering what happened to my baby as the ultrasound sound tech saw the baby was Alive, healthy and I didn’t tear apart my uterus and hemorrhage from the looks of my car accident was very possible so I’m grateful for my 3rd son I no longer crave a daughter and just felt completed by my last son in my heart,I am 1 of 3 girls and my 2 sisters since very early on don’t get along “proud boy mom “ wish u well