So, lately I’ve been experiencing the silent treatment from the baby father ever since I told him the type of person he…
So, lately I’ve been experiencing the silent treatment from the baby father ever since I told him the type of person he is? What’s your opinion baby momma friends he ignores both my texts and whatsapp calls since Wednesday that’s when I’ve noticed a change in his behaviour
I mentioned how got a new phone and his first question is how did I afford it obviously working 3 jobs am pretty capable and independent why would ask sometime dumb so my response was from working
Quite frankly I’m done with him so I told him his silent treatment really mature
And also I’ve been going medical visits without him he only attended one since his work more important than baby well being sometime this week I have 3 medical injections which need get done that not covered by medical insurance than $480 from my pocket and ontop of everything almost $3,000 the day of birth
He doesn’t feel the need to be a part of anything just wants claim being father figure by speech with no action how silly does that sound so I’ve decided to cut him off
To make matters worse he put vehicle in my name which has few accumulated almost 2,000$ that his refused to pay he said end month and it’s already July 1st and his not paid it off I said if pay this from my pocket I want nothing do with u and don’t come close me or kid or I’ll call police on u
I deserve better that’s partly why we fighting
kammy·
Мама сына (2 года)
dont put him on birth certificate lol
Belinda··
Honestly I shouldn’t be paying for his mistakes it’s good lesson for me but for the future I’d ❤️to drive my kid 🧒 around so I’ll have no choice
Belinda·
Yes I agree ❤️😊my mom told me the same thing or else I’ll suffer
kammy·
Мама сына (2 года)
yep but you won't be able to get any child support. I'm sure you knew you wouldn't get a dime from him anyway. just try and set some aside for yourself while you're still working
Belinda··
It’s not worth the stress, but thanks for the reminder infant time will tell pretty sure he will come back to me but I’m not interested by then it will be to late considering his shown me his true colours
sweetsap·
Who drives the car?
Belinda··
He drives it but put car in my name he pretty much manipulated me and didn’t realize until much later only to find out his license was taken
sweetsap·
@jennybelindawamunga you need to have it repossessed or towed to you. It's your car, he's going to ruin your credit... not sure if that's a big thing in Canada. But anyway, you can get the car taken away from him
Belinda··
Yeah true the thing is the towing company demanding the occurring balance from me before the car can be released but I honestly feel I shouldn’t pay for his mistakes but the longer I take the worser it becomes since the cost is calculated daily and the same would apply to storage fee, and in Canada 🇨🇦 it’s considered a big deal, since it affects me directly because they threatened me and said if it’s not paid in future I can’t drive but at same time that’s manipulative techniques who has money to waste to pay something they haven’t done honestly
That’s not a genuine relationship his just manipulating user
So after clearing the cost and all I’ve actually spoken to another company to come collect it and sell it it’s not worth keeping this car honestly brings bad luck
Every time he drives it something bad happens the other time he got arrested in my presence u know how embarrassing that is I felt so bad that day and he wanted me to hide it from my parents and am not that type that’s when I started see red flags
Then the second incident I was home and he got caught with his contacting his ex girlfriend in parking lot and was arrested and taken into custody for like a month and few days it didn’t feel good to me and that’s what made the car occur a balance which his finding difficult to pay for honestly like am the one who caused the scene
sweetsap·
Release from where? I was suggesting that you have the lender take the car away. Or, you pay for it, and have it towed to you, since it's your car.
Why did you pay off the debt and allowed him to keep the car?
Belinda··
I haven’t paid the debt yet it’s still in the towing company and the minute I do so I’ll have the other company which agreed to come pick up the vehicle and sell it
Belinda·
The lender whose the baby father of my kid made it seem like he was get me the vehicle as a gift and me not knowing his driving license was ceased I agreed to sign the vehicle documents in the moment which was bad idea only to realize he was set me up for failure
Belinda·
And now when I try to explain everything it’s to late for the company to understand or to even listen to what I have to say know have no choice but to deal with the consequences
sweetsap·
That's true about the consequences @jennybelindawamunga