Does any mamas 😻 look completely different then b4 they had kids? Different color, different size? I…

Does any mamas 😻 look completely different then b4 they had kids? Different color, different size? I shave once a week and my pores look huge, it's a different color its darker then b4. I've gained some weight so its fatter. But to me it looks horrible. I'm going to schedule an appointment with a dermatologist to see about intimate skin bleaching. And also I'm going to try to get on a weight lose thing lol.