If anybody could take the time to read this i would really really appreciate it!
So i've been joking about how i ruined Charlie's life by giving him the wrong towel etc but me and a friend (who has an autistic daughter) are starting to think there is more to it.
Tonight i changed charlie's bedding from a plain grey duvet set that he has had on it for the last 6 months (it's been washed in that time obviously) to a new dinosaur set which i thought he would love since he is dinosaur mad. Wrong. After 30 minutes i have FINALLY got him to go to bed... with no pillow and no blanket because he will just not go near this new duvet set.
He had a full on sobbing meltdown as soon as he saw it, sobbing that he didn't like it and attempted to throw it all down the stairs. He has already been referred to senco by the nursery because of his behavioral characteristics so i'm hoping now it comes through sooner to see what their opinion is. He has his usual 3 year old naughty behaviours but some behaviours like tonight just aren't sitting right.
Another example if he hurts himself he has never accepted affection, whenever he hurts himself he gets very angry, punches his own head and lashes out at everyone around me.
Tonight he had pasta for dinner/tea, he was struggling so i helped him putting it on rhe fork and again went into complete meltdown when i put the 'wrong piece' on the fork. Anyone have any opinions? Am i reading into it too much? Anybody with an autistic child feel like my post rings alarm bells?
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My 2 nearly 3 year old is non verbal asd with spd development delay with other issues I can’t change anything he does not have cuddles etc when he’s hurt he has the biggest meltdowns over the smallest things it does sound like what u are saying x