Ok ladies I need y'all to tell me to stop being a jealous B and be happy for my SIL. My husband and I are TTC baby #6 but no luck as of yet and my SIL just announced she's pregnant with her third yesterday. I am some what happy for even though she can't stand my guts and blames me for us moving 16 hours away. I'm not happy about the father of the baby because he's verbally abusive to her and is or was on drugs (I'm not sure if he's really clean) and he's cheated multiple times. Seriously though just tell me to shut up and just be happy for her.
Thank you I really appreciate the kind words and that's what I'm trying to do is be happy for her and keep my feelings to myself.
@mommymonster, I truly do understand your concerns though since her husband seems like a dick.
@ek_ thankfully they're only engaged so maybe she'll come to her senses before the walk down the aisle.
@mommymonster oh I understand how u feel. When I lost my son I had to come home to my fully pregnant sil asking me to feel her baby kick smh
@motherfirst10 I'm very sorry for your loss and that just seems so insensitive that she would do that. I know if we conceive it will happen in due time but I'm just worried about her at the same time.
While yes you should be outwardly happy for her, your feelings are valid, okay? Its hard to see someone with your dream, especially when it's with someone who shouldn't be having children.
Feel your feelings when you're alone, but put on a happy face for the family.