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So today I posted a Father’s Day post to my husband.

And .....I tagged my 7 year old sons step mom in a post for his dad bc he doesn’t have fb. This was the post for my sons father which I tagged his girlfriend who I am friends with.

My husband threw his cereal all over the wall and freaked out on me and said it’s extremely inappropriate. What do u all think? We never talk expect Fridays for a time he’s gonna meet me to get our son. He pays his child support. We don’t fight. I never fought with him or his girlfriend. We don’t even communicate unless it’s about my son. I talk to his girlfriend about lots of different things. Sending each other funny memes. She thought it was nice.

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mychemicalshaymance

ShayМама двоих (1 год, 6 лет)

Sorry to comment on here, just wanted an update. Everything going okay?

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kellywidener820

Kelly Мама троих детей

We saw our marriage counselor and he apologized in there saying he overreacted. I told him if he continues with the anger issues I’m going to leave. Hopefully he checks himself the next time he’s upset. Thanks so much for asking! 💕

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mychemicalshaymance

ShayМама двоих (1 год, 6 лет)

@kellywidener820 so happy to hear that! And you stood your ground 💜 hope things continue to get better and even if they don't you're still a fantastic person for putting your babies first!

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kristinachau21

KristinaМногодетная мама (7 детей)

So your husbands mad you said happy Father’s Day to your child’s father??

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kellywidener820

Kelly Мама троих детей

Basically. Him and his ex don’t get along and it’s always drama with them. My ex does his own thing and I do mine. It’s like I can’t be normal since he’s not but that’s not my problem. I want my son to see that we can get along and be friendly for him. I swear my husband is jealous that I don’t have all the baggage he does. So he tries to create drama for me.

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kristinachau21

KristinaМногодетная мама (7 детей)

@kellywidener820, yes that is a very jealous thing to do😬 and throwing his bowl at the wall is anger issues I would be thinking hard about your relationship🤷‍♀️hopefully your counseling helps

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mychemicalshaymance

ShayМама двоих (1 год, 6 лет)

Sounds like it may be time to rethink this marriage. He is your son's father regardless of what your husband thinks is appropriate. It's spectacular that you have such an amazing relationship with his father and his father's girlfriend. If your husband can't see that then he doesn't deserve you or your son in his life.

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mychemicalshaymance

ShayМама двоих (1 год, 6 лет)

I hope i read this correctly, you made one for your husband and one for your son's father correct?

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kellywidener820

Kelly Мама троих детей

@mychemicalshaymance, yes I made one for each of them. And thanks for the advice, I didn’t think it was inappropriate and I hate that he made me second guess myself.

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bill_nye_the_russian_spy

AnnaМама двоих (1 год, 4 года), ждёт третьего

That’s not normal and that’s a waste of god damn cereal tell me it wasn’t lucky charms 😭🙏🏼

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bill_nye_the_russian_spy

AnnaМама двоих (1 год, 4 года), ждёт третьего

@kellywidener820, then in that case I would threw him against the wall for eating that nasty ass cereal

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kellywidener820

Kelly Мама троих детей

@boymom123, 😂😂😂😂

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bill_nye_the_russian_spy

AnnaМама двоих (1 год, 4 года), ждёт третьего

@kellywidener820, nasty ass 🤮

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guitarplayer4him

TacomommaМама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

What luna_bear said!

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luna_bear

Luna_bear Мама троих детей

He threw his cereal all over the wall?! THAT is the only "extremely inappropriate" thing I see in this situation. HIS behavior. He sounds like he has some serious anger issues

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kellywidener820

Kelly Мама троих детей

Ya I left when he freaked out on me and when I came home the cereal had been thrown all over the wall. We’re in marriage counseling. And he keeps going on about bringing this up tomorrow. I’m like yea it definitely is being brought up. There was no need for him to act like that.

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luna_bear

Luna_bear Мама троих детей

@kellywidener820 glad to hear you're in counseling. I dont think you did anything wrong in this situation

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jellybeans33

JellyМама сына (3 года)

Agreed

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@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer. ...

@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer. My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk outside without this information. Children of color are being targeted and killed too. It’s not just adults. I let my son know we treat everyone equally and with respect. I let him know that we love everyone for their differences. In every aspect. Color, race, ethnicity, religion, sexual preference we love everyone.