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Avah Cruz

Suppper super pissed that my MIL somehow thought it was okay to take off with my debit card to pay…

Suppper super pissed that my MIL somehow thought it was okay to take off with my debit card to pay the electric bill. I’ve never met someone more irresponsible with her own items, her kids, her self. I don’t want her to have my personal information or my belongings PERIOD. I’m so ready each and every day to get the hell out of this house. So tired of the stress that comes with living in this house.

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hazelcoco

HazelXoco

Мама сына (2 года)

Damm I would of been pissed off too 😩. Although my mil is the best and she’s done a lot for me and my husband. No one is allowed to get your personal belongings. How was she able to do that with your card?

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ddsr

Bethsaida "Sponge"

Мама двоих (1 год, 2 года)

I would report her

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avahcruz

Avah Cruz

@hazelmaplewood, @ddsr, so we’re currently living with her and she’s been in and out as far as living here because of this boyfriend she has 🙄 we pay are part and ask to be included in bills because we want to earn the space we have. She gets back from another break up wining to my husband if the bill isn’t paid soon the electricity will be shut off. So we’re having to pay the electric plus the late fee attached. My husband asked me if I can call and pay and I’m like sure, but I don’t have the account number so I have him call her to get it, she says it’s her phone number, so I call the place and it’s not her phone number so we tell her she needs to call and get her account number. She tells us hours later when the company is closed and won’t be open until tomorrow (this happened Saturday evening) and then I’m like okay well we need to do it online so I’ll need the password, which she also doesn’t know 🙄 then she asks my husband to ask me to send a picture of the card and I say no. I’m like you can stand with her while she pays and give me back my card after but I don’t want her to have the numbers. And while I gave my card to him I went in the room because I was busy doing stuff and I also don’t care to be around her. While that was happening she was also trying to get my husband to give her money and when my husband told her “no” she got pissed off and left with my debit card. I was so mad and had my husband handle it. She came back within maybe 10 min or so. Her face too she looked so shocked I didn’t want her having my personal belonging that included private information.

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ddsr

Bethsaida "Sponge"

Мама двоих (1 год, 2 года)

She sounds terrible. Hopefully you can get out of there soon! And I'm glad your husband is standing up and handling her. Some MILs can be such a pain.

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avahcruz

Avah Cruz

he’s so awesome and thank you ❤️ me too!! forreal and I don’t get how a mom can just use her own kids or prioritize anything over their kids. So crazy.

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hazelcoco

HazelXoco

Мама сына (2 года)

Let me just say ... if that electricity bill had more than a week and half since you got it I will understand her frustration. I would want to pay my bill before it hits the late fee. If you know the electricity bill is almost coming up save that money for when it’s due not after if not you’ll pay more of the price for the late fee. Keep in tract of your bills ! If you’re responsible for a bill always save money for it even If theres a week or 2 left for it to be due . Just save the money so when she ask for it you have it ready .

I know what it’s like living with other people you’ll want your own space . But when you live under someone else’s roof you have to pay at least half of some bill to put your part.

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hazelcoco

HazelXoco

Мама сына (2 года)

@avahcruz, you should ask her around the 15th of the month for the bill . I’m not sure what day the bill comes but it’s mostly after the day 15th . Or you could ask for a copy of the keys for the mailbox that’s going to make you a lot more responsible for the bill . Communication is key I would try to take a copy of the key and check every once in a while . Or just save money for the bill so you’ll have it ready . She sounds so irresponsible so have that money ready .

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avahcruz

Avah Cruz

@hazelmaplewood, we had the money available and ready to pay it just came down to her but yes we’re definitely going to get the dates to all important bills so when each bill comes we’re ready just in case it’s our bill moving forward for the remaining time lol

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hazelcoco

HazelXoco

Мама сына (2 года)

I think she’s going trough some things . Take a copy of the key so you don’t have to worry about her coming to you late .

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