Another topic lol 🤷🏻♀️ I got time today . How do I move on from my own mother I know you only get one but she has disrespected me one too many times today being the last time . My sons father disciplined our child OUR CHILD. He lightly popped on the butt with a flip flop ( Hispanic thing) . My mom told me today that if she heard or catches him doing it again she’s going to “say something” I simply told her even though she may not like it , it’s not her place we are his parents and what we do is what we do . If you don’t see my child with bumps a black eye bleeding , telling you I hit him . Then there shouldn’t be any input , she gets upset proceeds to say that if it happens she is going to report us for abuse mind u we have never used anything but our hands when we see fit lol ! This was the one and only time . Some children do not listen to just verbal discipline! She is a grandmother not the mother there shouldn’t be any of this .
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Yea I’m not upset about her opinions it’s her thinking it’s ok to be verbally aggressive and abusive . She gets mad when you have a opinion other than her own or you don’t do things how she does things . But like I stated before she is very negative I’ve tried the whole space thing she’s still the same . I’m here because she needed my help but it’s a constant spit in the face to me
Block all the numbers and don't answer the door. That's what I did. Feels good.
Idek what i would do in your case. It is so hard sharing a home with someone like that. If you werent living together id say to tell her you need a break from her. You and your child. Because shes making threats. It isnt right to you for her to set rules about how you decide to handle your child
I’ve tried it all . She does this with everything though, she finds a negative to a lot of things in her life . And when I keep my distance by keeping our interactions brief she thinks I don’t care about her . I’ve told her multiple times why we do not have a close relationship . When I got pregnant with my son she changed
In the end, it’s her roof so its tough. She does not want that in her home.
Right understandable but when we don’t discipline she tells us he needs his “ass beat”
Do you live with your mother?
Do you mean about cutting her out of your life and child’s life?
@chess16, I know but it is clearly not helping the situation. She has drawn the line about it and to report it is only going to make things worse.
You need to move out! Then she will have no right to share her opinion when it’s not wanted. While living in her house unfortunately I think it’s only fair for her to voice her opinion. But threatening to report you is beyond ridiculous