Anyone live in NYC or close in Jersey that drives? (I drive too) I need mommy friends, drinking…

Anyone live in NYC or close in Jersey that drives? (I drive too) I need mommy friends, drinking buddies, just drama free females or female in my life. I always wanted a best friend but can't find a female that's just chill like me.. Someone i can vent with and you can vent to me and we can hang together with the kids. A real sincere friend. Is that too much to ask?? 🤦🤦🤦