So my dude is always pressing the issue of moving states he came out here from cali to originally be…

So my dude is always pressing the issue of moving states he came out here from cali to originally be with his daughter because his baby mama had moved from Cali , so long story short he is pretty much like if I'm not down to move he is leaving with the kids and I instantly broke down I told him I said from the beginning I would never be that baby mama that keeps you from your kids regardless of what happens between us , we've been together for four years and some and I just feel like he is trying to threaten me into moving ive been in Arizona my whole life and I really don't care to move I have my family here and he has no family here they are scattered every where from California to Indianapolis to Vegas Nevada , idk how to handle this situation I don't play when it comes to my kids