Wow! I could've typed this post myself. The phone makes my son act like a brat and I cant stand it! His dad is the same way. I literally have to be so stern with my husband like "Do not give him the phone!" The phone is his go - to for preventing toddler melt downz lol. Not mine

That's super frustrating. I would have a conversation with your partner and get on the same page with discipline. My fiance and I talked about times we give in and times we don't. Children pick up on empty threats quickly and will eventually learn to play the parents accordingly.