It took your body 9 months and ultimately you carried an entire person, give yourself time. It might help to also adjust your expectations. My husband thinks he’ll get back to how small he was when we first met but so much has happened in the last 10 years. He has a mans body now. Not a young mans. My point is, you have a woman’s body now. One that’s carried life. Give yourself a break. I’m sure you’re doing a wonderful job mama!