So we finally have another court hearing for my step son next Tuesday. My SO's lawyer requests that I be there. So I'm a little nervous because little man will only be 3 weeks old and he's EBF, he sometimes takes a bottle with BM. But I'll be somewhere I can't pump and my LO will have to go to a sitter.
Anyways, I need help. By Tuesday we have to have a list of reasons for the judge why my step son should live with us. I'm trying to think of everything that wont have me coming off rude. His mom tried to trick my SO into letting him go to this one private school for "free" after I did research, we found out it would not be free and my SO would be paying a lot of money for this school. He sits in a garage all day when he is with his mom and has no routine. Here, he attends a daycare that has preschool lessons, we have a set routine everyday, he has his new baby brother plus my other son, he's very well loved here, we're not trying to make him grow up too fast, we make sure he gets socialized (he seriously goes to the garage and sits in an office all day while his mom and grandparents work on vehicles. He's 4.), she refuses to take him to the daycare he attends when he's with us because "they'll give me dirty looks and be rude to me because I didnt send him there and you probably said so many bad things about me" (she says this when she isnt getting her way, she makes everything about her not my stepson). She's trying to take off to Mississppi with him all because her parents are selling their home and business and she only wants him here in the summer months (she lives with her parents and works for them).