I need some advice pls no bashing. Today is the first day of ovulation for me. My husband and I talked about it our daughter is going to be starting preschool in August and we feel like we’re staying stable and things have been going good for us. For everyone who doesn’t know I lost my son back in September due to natural causes. I been waiting on a sign from him and god. A few months ago I gotten that sign I was hoping for. Now the question is we are going camping this weekend and I am so scared to drink any alcohol and is my body heal up a enough down there to try for another one right now?
Have you talked to a dr to see if it’s right for you? None of us will know if your healed up enough.
I asked them when I went in for some tests and they said I am good but that’s it’s up to us though if we do or not
First of all, I’m truly sorry about your loss :( May your little angel rest in paradise. Second, I’m not sure how far along you were etc when you lost your son, but have you talked to your doctor at all about trying again? 9 months seems like it would be enough time to try again, and if you are going to try, I would definitely avoid drinking alcohol.
Just to clarify, you’re asking if it’s ok to drink while trying to conceive this cycle? And today is ovulation day?
@candacefoster36, as far as drinking goes, you will be just fine this weekend. But make it your last hoo-rah. Baby wouldn’t even implant for a while and the placenta doesn’t form until a little later.
Also, so sorry for your loss. If your doctor says you’re ok to try, you’re perfectly fine. Other then you...they know your body best in working with you so closely. Good luck to you and throwing baby dust your way!
Your son was born over a year ago. As far as being healed down there you're perfectly fine to try again. If you're talkin about mentally and emotionally being ready to conceive. That's really up to you.