So moms this a touching subject but how many spank they kids and it works and how many didn't spank they kids and use other methods.
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Never Spank and never will. Redirection and consistency is where it’s at. I think spanking is lazy. There is always an alternative no matter what age. It doesn’t teach respect or for your child to listen. It teaches your child that his/her action resulted in a spanking, so not to do that action to avoid getting spanked. It doesn’t actually teach them right from wrong. Big difference between fear and respect.
I agree with this. Spanking has been shown to have very little effect. Every time someone asks me "well how are you going to discipline your child then?" I ask them how they discipline people in their own life. Do you hit your husband when he does something you don't like? Obviously not. There are better ways to communicate 😂
I try time outs ,corner, then spanks if none of that work.unless its serious like break a window then a whooping. But only my 8and up get whoopings. My 1 yr old I tell him no.if he does something wrong and move him away from what he is doing to get his mind off of it. If my 3&4 yr old do something I do the same if they keep it up nap it is! And they do not go outside or play
Also, you’re kids are too little that spanking is simply a scare tactic
Time outs.
Spanking is and only will be a last resort for my kids. Time outs and redirections.
I tried it on my youngest after everything else failed...
It didn't work so I stopped.
Now I just take away toys, tablet. Tell her why that behavior is unacceptable.
My oldest.... She's super sensitive. I can't even raise my voice around her.