Just seen this post and the level of ignorance is crazy 🙄🙄😪 there are so many boyfriends that step up and become great male, even father figures the girlfriends babies!! These babies are gone because of irresponsible people left these babies with the wrong people. Be careful who you let be around you’re baby EVEN if your around at the moment!!
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I wouldn’t leave my child with my “boyfriend” and I would hope her father wouldn’t leave her with his “girlfriend” we don’t even leave her with family. You can’t trust anyone sorry not sorry I barely even left her with her father when she came home 🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
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I leave my son with my boyfriend but that’s because that’s his dad so I’m pretty comfortable with leaving my son with his own dad
Same ❤️ my babies love daddy probably more than me 😂😂 they get so excited with him not me! That how you know kids are being loved and cared for the right way. At the moment I see detachment and/or my babies act weird around them that’s when I’m going to start doubting what’s up. But until then I love him and I know both my babies love him more❤️
I agree with the post and I am far from ignorant. 🤷🏾♀️ I think a lot of women get too comfortable with putting men, who are not their child's biological fathers, around their children. Just because a man can be trusted in your relationship doesn't mean he should be trusted around your children. There should be a rather lengthy and elaborate process going on, before even considering allowing another man to babysit your child or children.
Yes!! Even people that have raised i will always be cautious of my kids no matter what.
That's sad. I had a bestfriend who had kids with her husband. We knew him sense high school and she had 2 kids with him and they were married. Come to find out he molested her oldest daughter and he babysit all the time. Point is you just don't know about people anymore. He wasn't just a boyfriend he was her husband for years and I trusted him as well. But if I had a boyfriend he wouldn't be watching my kids till I knew for a fact he could be trusted and that might be never lol. I don't have to worry though been with my bow for 12yrs and we have kids together. Some females though be dating someone for a few weeks them leave their kids with them. Hell no.
@householdceo, that’s exactly me!! My mom grandma and one of his aunts not even HIS mom or grandma .. they love than and can be around but they don’t care enough and will hand them over when they start to cry 😂😂 his aunt will even take them while I sleep to help me out and I love her
@xomarylee yea my hubs mom I wouldn't let either and one of my grandmas drink too much so she can't watch them either lol
You don’t know someone until something like that happens.
I agree you can’t trust anyone but I he point of the post was ignorant because like i said many boyfriends step up and do right.. even better than most father and I just thought the person that posted that mind is so closed up.
Can’t trust these “boyfriends” nowadays. A lot of women have been just leaving them thinking they’ll be safe but people have other intentions. It’s too many cases like this.
I wouldn’t leave my child with my “boyfriend” and I would hope her father wouldn’t leave her with his “girlfriend” we don’t even leave her with family. You can’t trust anyone sorry not sorry I barely even left her with her father when she came home 🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
@taylorsmommy, I always think if the parents break up there should be evaluations made of the parents. Because if I have doubts in someone around me I would definitely not let my babies around them
@xomarylee, and let me add my moms boyfriend I consider him my stepdad but even then my mom never left us unattended with him and they have been together since I was a kid. He’s a great man he’s never done anything to me but my mom also never left us alone not saying he would do anything but still. I wouldn’t put my child in a situation where something might possibly happen better safe then sorry.
@xomarylee, well defiantly if I have doubt about them she wouldn’t be around that person no matter who they are
Maleah is gone because child services failed her. And I agree this posy is ignorant. I can leave my kids w my husband for a year and know my kids fine. Or I wouldn't of had kids w him or married him. Not all moms r dumb and irresponsible
I agrees with that but at the same time I wouldn’t of left my baby with someone that was hurting her. Idc when the system says that ignorance it self and if go to jail to protect whats mine but i wouldn’t never handed my daughter back to abusers 🤷🏼♀️
@xomarylee I,understand too. But the child services knew she was still with him so obviously she Dont care aboutnher child. Child services should of never gave her back. And I feel mom should get charged also. She left him with her baby and she knew he hurt her she had to,get like 5 brains surgery's from head injury and yet child services still gave her back even when the surgery's wasn't done.
@taytay415, that’s what I’m saying idc what the system said I have to do ... I would of never gave her back EVER!! Idc if I get arrested😂 that my kids life! I’d do anything to make sure they never touched my kids
I agree with the post and I am far from ignorant. 🤷🏾♀️ I think a lot of women get too comfortable with putting men, who are not their child's biological fathers, around their children. Just because a man can be trusted in your relationship doesn't mean he should be trusted around your children. There should be a rather lengthy and elaborate process going on, before even considering allowing another man to babysit your child or children.