** My unborn sons grandfather is trying to sleep with me**
** My unborn sons grandfather is trying to sleep with me**
My babys dads father has been messaging me telling me how beautiful i am ect. I thought it was cause he knows ive been feeling down about myself lately during my pregnancy nd was trying to make me feel better. He told me he wanted to tell me something but couldnt because it would get him into trouble. I thought it was something his son said ( my babys dad ) so i told him to tell me. He told me he cant stop thinking about my lips, how he wants to kiss me and then he got very sexual with what he would like to do. I dont want to completley cut him out because he is my babys grandfather and I also dont want him to get mad at me and spread false information. I have all of the messages saved in case that does happen but I dont know what to do. Today he told me hes definetly going to sleep with me. Right now hes the only person I had for support during this pregnancy on my childs dads side of the family so im trying to tread lightly. If it was anyone else id tell them where to go. Someone please tell me how to handle this!!
M H K S·
Мама четверых детей
I would definitely cut him off. It seems to me he has no respect for you speaking in such a manner.
Serena··
Мама сына (4 года)
thats exactly how I feel & honestly it feels worse cause its coming from him. If it was someone I didnt know I would tell him to f off
Jayda·
you needa tell him he's being inappropriate. support or not you should have a problem with him being creepy. in general i feel like its weird to even have these thoughts about the mother of your grandchildren. if you & the father arent speaking you dont have to tell him but you should probably tell the grandfather that he's the grandfather & nothing more. that's weird.
Serena··
Мама сына (4 года)
maybe if he was there and watched me push out his grandson he would change his mind 😂
Jayda··
or he might want u more. your best bet is stay away
Serena··
Мама сына (4 года)
thats true. I just want a peaceful normal pregnancy. Im giving birth at a birth center instead of a hospital and plan on having a water birth. I might just labour alone and let everyone know when hes arrived.
.·
Мама двоих (1 год, 2 года)
I agree with @paguirre704, tell him your very uncomfortable, and if he doesn’t respect that I would cut him off.
I know it’s hard because he is your support team right now but you can’t have support with being uncomfortable and feeling uneased. I’m sorry this is happening!
Serena··
Мама сына (4 года)
I'll try that and see if it works!
.··
Мама двоих (1 год, 2 года)
Goodluck!
Dee ·
Мама двоих (младенец)
That’s disgusting! You need to cut him off.
Q U E T A✨··
Мама двоих (1 год, 6 лет), ждёт третьего
Exactly
Dee ··
Мама двоих (младенец)
@serenaj6, would you trust that man with your child after what he’s doing to you? That’s the real question.
Serena··
Мама сына (4 года)
Ive never heard or seen him be inappropriate towards kids. hes got other grandchildren and is always around them no problem
Kristen ·
Мама троих детей
Im sorry but you need to tell him where to go. That's not ok hell he sounds like a pedophile and I wouldn't want my kids around him either. Tell him it's uncomfortable and cut ties with him completely. I don't know your relationship with your babies dad but id tell him as well. If he was a wife tell her too.
Serena··
Мама сына (4 года)
His son doesnt speak to me and him and his dad have more of a friend relationship then a parent one. Before this I had said it was ok for him to be in the room when im in labor and deliver but now i feel uncomfortable with that
Kristen ··
Мама троих детей
I'd still cut him off. I understand it's hard but that behavior just isn't normal.
Mazzika·
Многодетная мама (7 детей)
Cut him off honey
Mazzika··
Многодетная мама (7 детей)
You have to make stands with creepies like him.
Serena··
Мама сына (4 года)
@mazz i think im having a hard time doing that cause hes gonna b around the rest of my sons life once hes here so im trying not to make waves.
Mazzika··
Многодетная мама (7 детей)
ok I understand, then tell that mother fucker we're not in that type of relationship nor would we ever be. And if he ever speak to you in that matter he would be cut off because you are not deal with that bull shit. Tell him he's around because you are pregnant with his grandchild not because you want to fuck him
TayTay·
Многодетная мама (10 детей)
Maybe he is testing u for he's son?
Serena··
Мама сына (4 года)
his son dumped me 2 days after we found out i was pregnant and he recently got back with his ex and got her pregnant. His son doesnt even talk to me
TayTay··
Многодетная мама (10 детей)
oh OK well that's not it.seems like he is just a bigger piece ofnshit version of he's son. ✂ them both off
Paula Martinez ·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
I would tell him how uncomfortable his words are making you feel and that you don’t feel the same way. Tell him you would appreciate it if he didn’t speak to you that way. I would tell your baby’s father what he’s sending to you if he continues or gets mad. I would rather him get mad at me then harass me and make me feel uncomfortable. Stand up for yourself.
Paula Martinez ··
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
@serenaj6, Your best bet is to either speak to him in person somewhere public if you’re comfortable with it, because it really can be him, or call him through fb and see if he picks up
Serena··
Мама сына (4 года)
ive accidently called through fb messenger and he didnt pick up. I didnt let it keep ringing but i thought it eas kinda strange.
Serena··
Мама сына (4 года)
he just sent me a winky face emoji through FB messenger. didnt say anything just the emoji
west side~momma·
Мама двоих (1 год, 2 года)
Huh 😳 why are you around him. Why are your kids around him. This is not normal behavior really. Block his number and cut ties
Serena··
Мама сына (4 года)
my 4 year old son has never met him. Im around him because his son is the father of my unborn baby and he was my support system in the begining.
Q U E T A✨··
Мама двоих (1 год, 6 лет), ждёт третьего
Right