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serenaj6
Serena
** My unborn sons grandfather is trying to sleep with me**

My babys dads father has been messaging me telling me how beautiful i am ect. I thought it was cause he knows ive been feeling down about myself lately during my pregnancy nd was trying to make me feel better. He told me he wanted to tell me something but couldnt because it would get him into trouble. I thought it was something his son said ( my babys dad ) so i told him to tell me. He told me he cant stop thinking about my lips, how he wants to kiss me and then he got very sexual with what he would like to do. I dont want to completley cut him out because he is my babys grandfather and I also dont want him to get mad at me and spread false information. I have all of the messages saved in case that does happen but I dont know what to do. Today he told me hes definetly going to sleep with me. Right now hes the only person I had for support during this pregnancy on my childs dads side of the family so im trying to tread lightly. If it was anyone else id tell them where to go. Someone please tell me how to handle this!!
02.06.2019

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xmoonxkissedx
xmoonxkissedx
I would definitely cut him off. It seems to me he has no respect for you speaking in such a manner.
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serenaj6
serenaj6
thats exactly how I feel & honestly it feels worse cause its coming from him. If it was someone I didnt know I would tell him to f off
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strongmommy23
strongmommy23
you needa tell him he's being inappropriate. support or not you should have a problem with him being creepy. in general i feel like its weird to even have these thoughts about the mother of your grandchildren. if you & the father arent speaking you dont have to tell him but you should probably tell the grandfather that he's the grandfather & nothing more. that's weird.
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serenaj6
serenaj6
@strongmommy23 maybe if he was there and watched me push out his grandson he would change his mind 😂
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strongmommy23
strongmommy23
@serenaj6, or he might want u more. your best bet is stay away
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serenaj6
serenaj6
@strongmommy23 thats true. I just want a peaceful normal pregnancy. Im giving birth at a birth center instead of a hospital and plan on having a water birth. I might just labour alone and let everyone know when hes arrived.
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thebthatdontcare
thebthatdontcare
I agree with @paguirre704, tell him your very uncomfortable, and if he doesn’t respect that I would cut him off.
I know it’s hard because he is your support team right now but you can’t have support with being uncomfortable and feeling uneased. I’m sorry this is happening!
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serenaj6
serenaj6
I'll try that and see if it works!
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thebthatdontcare
thebthatdontcare
@serenaj6, Goodluck!
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dee2115
dee2115
That’s disgusting! You need to cut him off.
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adashoflovewith2girls1boy
adashoflovewith2girls1boy
Exactly
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dee2115
dee2115
@serenaj6, would you trust that man with your child after what he’s doing to you? That’s the real question.
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serenaj6
serenaj6
@dee2115 Ive never heard or seen him be inappropriate towards kids. hes got other grandchildren and is always around them no problem
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householdceo
householdceo
Im sorry but you need to tell him where to go. That's not ok hell he sounds like a pedophile and I wouldn't want my kids around him either. Tell him it's uncomfortable and cut ties with him completely. I don't know your relationship with your babies dad but id tell him as well. If he was a wife tell her too.
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serenaj6
serenaj6
His son doesnt speak to me and him and his dad have more of a friend relationship then a parent one. Before this I had said it was ok for him to be in the room when im in labor and deliver but now i feel uncomfortable with that
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householdceo
householdceo
@serenaj6 I'd still cut him off. I understand it's hard but that behavior just isn't normal.
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mazzika_uae_amino_boss_mom
mazzika_uae_amino_boss_mom
Cut him off honey
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mazzika_uae_amino_boss_mom
mazzika_uae_amino_boss_mom
You have to make stands with creepies like him.
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serenaj6
serenaj6
@mazz i think im having a hard time doing that cause hes gonna b around the rest of my sons life once hes here so im trying not to make waves.
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mazzika_uae_amino_boss_mom
mazzika_uae_amino_boss_mom
@serenaj6, ok I understand, then tell that mother fucker we're not in that type of relationship nor would we ever be. And if he ever speak to you in that matter he would be cut off because you are not deal with that bull shit. Tell him he's around because you are pregnant with his grandchild not because you want to fuck him
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ogmamataytay
ogmamataytay
Maybe he is testing u for he's son?
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serenaj6
serenaj6
his son dumped me 2 days after we found out i was pregnant and he recently got back with his ex and got her pregnant. His son doesnt even talk to me
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ogmamataytay
ogmamataytay
@serenaj6 oh OK well that's not it.seems like he is just a bigger piece ofnshit version of he's son. ✂ them both off
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paguirre704
paguirre704
I would tell him how uncomfortable his words are making you feel and that you don’t feel the same way. Tell him you would appreciate it if he didn’t speak to you that way. I would tell your baby’s father what he’s sending to you if he continues or gets mad. I would rather him get mad at me then harass me and make me feel uncomfortable. Stand up for yourself.
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paguirre704
paguirre704
@serenaj6, Your best bet is to either speak to him in person somewhere public if you’re comfortable with it, because it really can be him, or call him through fb and see if he picks up
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serenaj6
serenaj6
@paguirre704 ive accidently called through fb messenger and he didnt pick up. I didnt let it keep ringing but i thought it eas kinda strange.
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serenaj6
serenaj6
@paguirre704 he just sent me a winky face emoji through FB messenger. didnt say anything just the emoji
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westsidemomma
westsidemomma
Huh 😳 why are you around him. Why are your kids around him. This is not normal behavior really. Block his number and cut ties
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serenaj6
serenaj6
my 4 year old son has never met him. Im around him because his son is the father of my unborn baby and he was my support system in the begining.
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adashoflovewith2girls1boy
adashoflovewith2girls1boy
Right
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