Moms -- dont judge but i want opinions please! I have 2 children a girl and boy and theyr almost 4 and almost 2. Now need down i want 1more and my husband is ready anytime he says but then i have thr hard days where nothing is going right and kids arguing and fighting Nd its been a long day or night that makes me want ti change my mind, is this wrong of me? I am just now starting to sleep more than 3hrs a night since ive had them and it feels great and its making me Hold back on a 3rd child, is this wrong of me?? I want to wait till both of them are a bit older but ill be 29 in june and i kinda dnt wana hVe any more babies after 30 soo.. how did u kno u wanted or did want more children??
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Seee my kids rarely ever slept and everyone round me got lucky n their children slept so well soo of course im the one tht was up since i brestfed for a while and well my husband works alot or he is traveling for work soo i can be a stay at home mom and i sm thankful for it bt it also makes things worse idk because there is no me time.. and friends? What are friends? But i wouldnt give this life up for anything else im blessed and i know it, just not sure if hsving 1 more iss right for us.. my mom had 8 children and she had me and my twin at age 36 and she devoted her whole life to us all
@momoftwo1 I dont know what a life is. lol no me time. my friend is my husband. I breastfed my daughter for 3.5 years until I got pregnant with my youngest... then breastfed him til 6 months when my milk left cuz I got pregnant with my daughter(due 24 days). I'm the one who raises all my kids and I'm a stay at home mom plus in online college..
It’s not wrong of you to feel that way. If you think deep down you won’t be able to handle another child then don’t. Plus you already Have a girl and a boy.
I have 5 kids all under 6 years old
Boy 6, girl soon to be 5, twin girls 3, now I’m pregnant with baby boy due this July.
I love all my children but it’s very hard they all fight as well and all want mommy. Which leaves no time for me.
I have to wash clothes late at night, even to do my hair late because that’s the only time I can do it. I gave up my career/ hobbies for my family. Lucky my husband is has a good job so I can stay home.
I hope my story helps you a little
There’s nothing wrong with having babies in your 30s! There’s nothing wrong with enjoying your other two babies and your newfound sleep for a while. It’s absolutely not wrong of you. When you’re ready to have another one...you will know. Whenever that may be is the perfect time for you specifically. That’s all that matters.
I wanted 4 since I was a kid. my husband only wanted 2. I was ok with 2. got pregnant with the 3rd, wasn't really ready even with a 3 yr gap... my husband said absolutely no more and was gonna be getting fixed at 6 month mark after our youngest was born.. I got pregnant at 5 months.. . I'm no where near ready for our 4th to be here next month. idk what sleep is. my oldest 2 constantly fight. I loose my sanity just with those 2.... I'm 28 going on 4 kids. with me it just happened lol