Like I said before. This is what he's going to do for a while and you cannot give in to his lies. If you go back, it will not be easy to leave again and you AND your kids will be in an even more dangerous situation.
@mamaofmytribe Good. No need to get aggravated with people... I know it's a difficult situation but no one is trying to judge you or bash you or anything of the sort. We are simply just looking out for you and your babies... I was in a domestic violence situation with my ex husband so I know it's not easy but leaving is the only option.
The cops are handling it right at this moment I've done a report, protection order and pressing charges (I can't do everything at once) plus I'm IN THE PROCESS OF SEPARATING FROM HIM !!!!!
The best thing would be to block his number so you don’t have to be tempted to answer. If a “man” hits you once, it will happen again. Just remember this time you got away, the next time you might not! I used man in that context because he is a coward. A real man doesn’t hit his wife. I would seek counseling or a support group so you are not alone! Here to talk too!
I agree with her^^^^ you gotta stay strong mama, keep your chin up high and March proud and fierce for your babies. He may beg, plead and even possibly try to get guilt trippy, but in the long run you will be SO better off without him. You can do this!! Be proud of your courage, own it and love it. It takes incredible balls to be in your place.
He’s going to. He’s gonna try HARD. But you can not go back girl. Now that he knows you’ll leave, next time could be much worse. It’s hard & it hurts now, but it won’t in the long run & you’ll be much happier & better off ! 🙌🏽💜