The amount of people judging her & threatening to call child services on her are definitely not helping her AT ALL. & child services isn’t gonna go off a profile with no info other than ONE status so calm down. She said she’s leaving but she’s terrified & that IS her looking out for those kids.. he catch her leaving & could do something or catch her calling police. It’s best she do exactly as she is & play like it’s fine & once she safely leaves to visit her parents she can contact police & be safe. Stop forcing things so her kids end up kidnapped or killed because you wanna pressure her to book it out the door while he’s clearly in an angry state of mind & has problems that could lead to him killing her or those babies. She’s handling it & leaving which is the right thing but she needed to do it SAFELY for those kids. It’s clear some of you never been in or knew someone in that situation & that’s why you’re treating her this way. Look up the facts on this type of thing. Most women you’ll find are brain washed into thinking they NEED this person or can’t make it without them. A lot of them are already told I’ll kill you or hurt the kids if you leave or kill myself which leads them to feel guilty & responsible for that so they stay. Some are just scared to be on their own & start over which makes them scared too. & a lot of times it’s gonna take leaving multiple times before they’ll be gone for good. This is not an easy thing to deal with & it can take a long time to get through & be okay again. Support her & HELP her, don’t threaten her & scare her even more or make her feel pressured to do something that might not be a safe option for her. I’m not saying she should stay by any means, she DEFINITELY needs to leave, but she needs to do it when she feels it’s a safe time to get out & then never go back.
I hope you reported him. Take your kids and yourself away from him or kick him out. Noone deserves to be hit on. Your kids don't need to see it either.
Ugh this makes me sad. I’m sure you know this but it only gets worse. It’s like they test you and each time it gets a little worse. You protect them like it’s some bond you have between you. I found out a few years ago that my ex hit his pregnant wife. It shocked me, like somehow I thought he only hit me. I’m sure you aren’t going to call the cops or leave tonight, though I hope you do but please for your kids sake truly think about the situation you are in and think about your babies. THERE IS NO EXCUSE FOR ABUSE
Lordt . If you need help getting away please reach out.
Also be advised CPS doesn’t play when it comes to DV in the household with children. They will snatch them kids away ASAP.