Id say try spending more time together even if its not just having sex sometimes just being in same room helps but same time buy things to kink it up abit n be spontaneous to help spice up things

In that situation currently..... My SO sleeps on the couch mainly because he can never sleep or sleep too early then when I'm ready to sleep he's awake. But he doesn't get that in a relationship you have to have that sexual spark and time for just the two of you. He's to busy with work, the house, and the kids. I mean he is constantly telling me how sexy and beautiful I am and how much he loves me but the spark I still feel is not there anymore. And the sexual connection isn't there. Kind of feel bad because of the fact he's always complimenting me. But it has more to do with just words

Buy some lingerie and put it on, cook a nice meal, no kids, watch a movie and then give him the ride of his life. Watch porn with him ? Give him a lap dance. Be spontaneous, maybe he’s tired of same routine sex, switch it up. Good luck !

Build up you emotional bond sec comes with it

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