HOW DO I TALK TO HER ABOUT IT... So I'm dreading the day this baby starts to grow up and go with the father more for my 6 year old daughter to start asking when she can go or why no one takes her out... By the way she'll be 7 when this baby is born and she's really smart she knows who her real dad is and he's never been in her life but I know as she gets 8 or 9 she'll start to feel left out
She won’t if you make things as even as possible. Meaning plan things when the other will have plans. Sometimes we’re over thinking stuff and children just want attention
@tyneziah, they she will but that’s not for you to worry about. As a mom prepare yourself. Answer as much as she can handle. And make sure she feels just as special
I'm in a single moms group they said to try and tell her the best way you can and in terms she will understand and let her know theres nothing wrong with having or being raised by one parent especially since she has the rest of her family that loves her.
Thank you I'm going to try and find a group as well because I remember you said something about it before
If she becomes upset, reassure her that you’ll always be her mother and she can come to you for anything she would come to a father for. If she doesn’t become upset at all, I wouldn’t say much about it. Just keep making plans with her and do fun stuff to keep her busy when the other kids are out.