FOR THOSE THAT DO NOT LIVE WITH THEIR SO, HOW DO YOU ALL COMMUNICATE THROUGHOUT THE DAY? DAILY ? A…
FOR THOSE THAT DO NOT LIVE WITH THEIR SO, HOW DO YOU ALL COMMUNICATE THROUGHOUT THE DAY? DAILY ? A COUPLE TIMES A WEEK? & WHEN YOU DO IS IT THROUGH CALLS OR TEXT OR BOTH ? IDK IF IM JUST USED TO ALWAYS TALKING ON THE PHONE WHEN I WAS IN MY PAST RELATIONSHIPS BUT W THIS RELATIONSHIP WE USED TO SPEAK AND TEXT 24/7 AND AFTER 10MONTHS OR BEFORE, HE ONLY SEEMS TO TEXT ME AND IT MAKES ME SUSPICIOUS AT TIMES WE DONT SPEAK OVER THE PHONE ANYMORE AND WHEN I DO CALL I GET IGNORED. I USED TO LIVE WITH HIM FOR 6MONTHS THEN I MOVED OUT AM I OVERREACTING?????
dawn·
My honest opinion and first thought that came to my head. After you moved out, he moved on. You now the side chic.
odalys··
Lol no cant be cause I still sleep over sometimes when I sleep over its for a week & if there was someone else I would know. He basically stays at his place on weeldays for work and on weeke ds he comes over with me for the weekend and sometimes I go back woth him for a week or more. He has begged me to move back but I hate the town he lives in.
dawn··
why do you think he doesn’t speak to you on the phone anymore? When your not staying over he keeps communication at a minimum.
odalys··
he plays xbox all day once hes off of work. Hes obssessed woth that stupid thing I regret letting him buy it tbh.
Icebergahead·
Мама сына (7 лет)
Sounds like he is phasing you out. Why did you move out?
Usually when people are a part for long periods the communication is stronger for lack of physical time. 😓 I hope that is not what he is doing.
There is a reason you have suspicions.
odalys··
He had his younger sister living with us after a while and she was basically free loading and never helped with rent or bills and he wouldnt say anything to her so I decided to move out cause I didnt want her free loading off mt and my kids stuff. I let her get away with it for a couple months. She lied to us and said she was gonna stay with us for 2 weeks and go back to school shes still there after 7months
Icebergahead··
Мама сына (7 лет)
oh boy🤧
Kathleen·
From personal experience. I was married and my husband was cheating on me in my own home. Don't think that just because his sister is there doesn't mean she isn't covering for him. Protect yourself and your heart mama.
odalys··
Oh I know this lol I have experienced this before but im not sure if he could be cheatimg tbh he send me videos or pics of him playong the game saying I didn tanswer cause I use my hotspot for wifi to play the xbox and I mess up his connection
Kathleen··
that makes sense somewhat. I know what that is like. My suggestion is make a set time to talk on tje phone. My now boyfriend calls me every night on his way home from work.
Adrienne·
So not trying to be rude, just trying to grasp the situation. Is he father to just your unborn child or to others? If he's only dad to unborn maybe he's got some cold feet that has caused him to lay low. My bf and I split around the time I found out I was preggo. Towards the end we decided to try again. But he was rarely reaching out. After 3 yrs of living together we were living separate again. This bothered me a lot. He didn't call or text often to check in on me and baby and that hurt....deep. We spoke when it was convenient for him. He's much diff now after 1.5 yrs but that should've been a sign.
odalys··
@addy oh yea He gets mad when I dont let him have his time bit then when I say fine talk to me tomorrow or something then he gets up my ass saying why am I not responding and then thats another arguement
Adrienne··
let him stew in that for a bit. Momma, don't keep caving to him bc he throws a fit. Thing is you allow certain behavior by not speaking up for yourself. Put your foot down. Demand the respect you deserve. There's literally no way around it, if you want a successful relationship or a successful co-parenting relationship you MUST communicate. If you don't nip this in the butt now it could get worse and beyond repair.
odalys··
@addy thank you