What do you ladies consider cheating? So I recently found out my boyfriend of 1 1/2years is sending…
What do you ladies consider cheating?
So I recently found out my boyfriend of 1 1/2years is sending d*** pictures out only because the other night he got a text message from a girl and the picture showed up right on the screen. So I have never checked his phone and I decided too and I seen messages with girls on what’s app, some dating sites and even the stupid pay for naked snaps thing.
I brought it to his attention( when I found out 2 days ago) and he told me he never cheated on me. To me it still cheating even if it not physically because you’re going out your way for entertainment.
Don’t get me wrong I don’t mind porn that’s one thing but to actually have text messages and phone calls with women talking about sex and trading pictures?
I’m in denial but asp hurt. Only because I went through this with my last boyfriend who is the father of my child. And it was a constant habit of him to do this an entertaining these women doing dates and such soo when my boyfriend came along I explained and he told me he would never do that it’s disrespectful and me of course believed him because he’s an older guy. I’m 25 he’s 31 & that I know of he’s been completely faithful until I found this out so it makes me question so much. And then all my insecurities start to come out. I’ve been a little depressed about this especially since he’s leaving for a week on Friday to visit his mother in Honduras and my head is thinking of anything and everything that could happen. Only because my ex did the same thing I seen pictures conversations etc and he left for a week and I found out that week he was away he did actually cheat with an ex gf of his.
Maybe I’m scared of past issues reoccurring it’s all in my head am I overreacting?!
Ashley ·
if he’s sending pictures of his penis. that’s cheating. he shouldn’t be doing that whatsoever. you’re not overreacting
dawn·
I don’t mind porn. But any one on one communication to me is a no-no. Especially a dating site. I think if I ever found a dating site on my husbands phone I would go to the courthouse to get a divorce packet and give it to him and tell him this is obviously what he wants since he’s on dating sites. I would do that to make him realize that I am not playing around.
kammy·
Мама сына (2 года)
it's not cheating but its dirty and breaks trust. he needs to figure out what he wants and learn to communicate with you
🕊·
cheating doesn’t have to be physical.
👻·
Do you feel betrayed? Do you feel like he has been dishonest? If yes, then yes, it’s considered cheating. If the roles were reversed I’m sure he wouldn’t like you sending nudes to other dudes.
Steph ··
Exactly what I said but response was oh he had some insecurities since we just got an apartment together because I’m being to nice
👻··
@ssbx3, that sounds like a crock of shit!
Allyson Almeda·
Yes that is cheating
Heather ·
Definitely cheating.
mrs.Jay__x·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
Whaaat.. that's definitely cheating! You mean to tell me he'll be ok with you sending nudes to other guys n chatting on dating sites n such?
Angela·
I’m sorry your going through this mama. I would consider it cheating but it’s up to you to decide what you are willing to put up with. I put up with a lot of bs from my husband but cheating is something I just couldn’t. Everyone is different and if you feel he will try to make things better give him a chance. I’d tell him he needs to do everything you need him to do to gain your trust back. Whatever that may be.
harmony·
Мама двоих (3 года, 8 лет)
100% cheating that's awful hope you are okay x
Nothere·
You’re not overreacting at all. In my opinion that is considered cheating. Flirty messages, pictures etc etc that’s all cheating maybe on a lesser level compared to actual sex but unfortunately it’s cheating
marie·
I would definitely consider that cheating. So sorry this has happened to you. Sending hugs! ♥️