i know this is kinda dumb and some of you will understand some won’t but i wanna know what you guys think... So my baby’s dad gf called me yesterday but she acted like she was looking for someone else she called me from a totally different number than hers later on she messaged me through her moms whatsapp i knew because her moms name popped up and no one else messages me from a tj number, the message was saying like hey how are you i knew it was her because it was her moms name so then i was like who are you who are you looking for and she replied with what do you mean who am i who are you, i told her she was the one who messaged that who was she looking for and she said her name was alma, alma is her sister so then i said wrong number sorry and she put “jajaja ok” i replied something mean to her but that made her know that i know who she is, because i’m pretty sure she was thinking i would never find out it was her little did she know her moms name pooped up. my question is should i have just let it go, or was it good/ okay that i told her something so she can know i know that it’s her. kinda confusing hope you moms understand it.
I would just ignore it from now on. Once you reply you're stooping to her level, especially if you are saying something mean. Don't give them the power they're looking for.
i stopped actually cause i know that’s what she wants, just wanted her to know i knew it was her messaging
I think you did the right thing it’s what I would’ve done most likely lol
Sounds a little weird to me. I'd ask her straight up what's going on with her. Why message you and do it from her mothers phone.