So random question don’t judge but this is really getting to me my partner keep listening to…
So random question don’t judge but this is really getting to me my partner keep listening to heartbreak songs every time he’s in the shower and the lyrics of the songs are really bothering me it’s like he’s thinking of an ex gf or something and it’s really bothering me I know if I bring it up to him he will say it’s just a song but he has done it before and when Iv mentioned it to him he said it just reminds him of things he’s been through with ex’s? But why would you want to listen to a song about being in love and it ending and you being lost and heartbroken? I’m 5weeks postpartum aswell so my emotions are abit up and down. Ps he has listened to these types of songs for a while there not old songs either there new songs that are in the charts but after he’s listened to them he goes in a really down mood and is quite stroppy with me which I find unfair. Any advice would be helpful or even if your girls would get irritated by it. Hope all you ladies have a lovely Monday 💋
Ashleigh·
Yeah to be fair this would make me pretty annoyed! Especially if his mood changes after... if he's denying it then there's not much you can do as men tend to hide their emotions. All I can think of is finding a way to show him you're better than any ex he's ever had 😂
Ashleigh·
Or have you tried telling him it upsets you? Maybe instead of making accusations maybe try calmly explaining to him that it upsets you, pick your timing though... you don't wanna do it when it happening or he'll probably just go into defence mode
Gemma 🖤·
Every song Drake has ever made is pretty much about missing an ex or being sad over a girl yet my other half listens to Drake all the time 😂🤷🏼♀️
I think as girls we tend to overthink things, it probably has absolutely no meaning for him at all. But because when we listen to songs we hold meaning to them, maybe we expect the same thing when they listen to them. Idk.
There’s a few songs that remind me of my ex, and when I listen to them sometimes it makes me think of him. But it’s not like I miss him at all, it’s not nostalgia or anything. But I won’t stop listening to a song I like because of an ex when he means absolutely nothing to me anymore x
Allana·
All he says he listens to songs about what he’s been through in relationships but it’s always songs that are along the line of him being hurt and still loving them? He really doesn’t talk about his feelings or emotions so he won’t confide in me and if I do mention him being abit down or moody and is he ok he just says he’s tired. I just am unsure of whether he’s longing after an ex gf that’s hurt him in the past and he can’t get over it he’s liking alsorts of odd pictures on fb about “sometimes you just have to let shit be and move on you don’t always get closure” that’s one for instance that he liked last night after listening to these songs. I feel like he’s still hurting over an ex he was in love with at the time and it makes me question mine and his relationship although that’s my issue I just don’t like him being in this weird mood and I don’t know how to help when he won’t speak to me about his feelings. He obviously hasn’t had closure on a certain relationship.. we have split up in the past and he has spoken to an ex gf who is now married with four children and they were flirting up a storm so straight away my mind springs straight to her as my partner said he was infatuated by her when they where together 😐 xx
Allana··
@emmabump13, coming upto three years x