What would you do if your stepmom fell asleep drunk twice while holding your baby while she and your dad were babysitting?! I’ve talked to my dad about it and he said something to her but then it happened AGAIN! I want her to still be a part of my child’s life but this is just ridiculous 😫🙄😠
She wouldn't be watching my child unattended AT ALL, that's for DAMN sure! I woulda been REAL uneasy after the first time. That's some serious shit, like that could end in a horrible tragedy and that AIN'T some dumb drunken bullshit you can apologize for the next day and everything be ok. They can come to my house or I'll bring the baby by for visits but NO WAY would they be babysitting on their own anymore.
I wouldn’t feel comfortable with that at all. I got so much shit for falling asleep with Owen in my arms when he was younger. Does she drink all the time? I’m sorry mama
My mom did this in the past and I had to keep my children away from her for awhile. My kids dont go to her house unsupervised, she is allowed at my house ONLY if she comes early before noon because she doesnt start drinking before then and I usually go through her vehicle. Shes no longer allowed to stay the night.
It's a talk your going to have to have maybe a few times. It may be a drastic choice you have to make before your point gets taken seriously.
If you trust your dad, you have to trust he doesnt let her hold the baby which isnt the case thus far and will be difficult to get across.
This is why we stay away from my S.O.s family, and only see them every once in a while. His mom and his sister both will fall asleep standing there talking to you. I watched them do it to his sisters daughter too many times, and decided then they'd be no part of my sons life until they got better.
If you trust your dad, he has to be trusted to not let her fall asleep or drunk pass out while holding the baby. If he can't prevent that from happening then no, they may not babysit my kid ever again. He can come solo. But she must not be present.