just to be clear... your boyfriend smacked/grabbed your daughters butt? Is it also his daughter? And you moved? So that means you’ve broken up because I’m hoping you’re not allowing that behavior. 🤞🏼you did well by moving and ending things and not allowing anyone (father or not) to touch your precious babies. That’s definitely not normal or should be apart of any “culture”.
@girlymamaa thank you I was mad didnt feel comfortable there and took my things and left now he is under investigation and also he is acting like he was just playing and it's no big deal and he us acting like it was a misunderstanding
Hmm i don’t think it’s a cultural thing. But I’m also a firm believer that children should have body autonomy . Ask her consent if she wants to get playfully slapped on butt. 🙈
I’m Mexican and I’m always spanking not hard and grabbing her legs because she is chunky drives me nuts. I don’t do it hard jus enough to get my crave over
Hmm no but I think I know what’way shes meaning it like for instance if my son doesn’t want to play with others I would give him a little playful slap in the butt like meaning go play go have fun . Although it’s not a Mexican culture thing .
@verguinia, like how all the time? What is he saying when he’s doing it? Idk my husband does not play with the kids the same as I do. Every guy is different tho. Is it just when he’s being carinoso?
No, it’s not a culture thing. I wouldn’t let anyone playfully smack your daughters butt that is crossing a boundary that shouldn’t be crossed. It’s a pervert thing, it’s considered sexual harassment and sexual assault.
I’m Mexican and will playfully spank my daughter and son. Not my bigger boys anymore but when they were little yes. I will say want me to “pank you” lol idk jus if we are playing around.🤷🏼♀️ I wouldn’t allow anyone else to do it unless their dad though but he doesn’t play like that.
Y’all it wasn’t just a playful smack. It was also a squeeze. I got nauseous reading your comment about it. A grown man should not be squeezing and playfully smacking your baby girls butt. That’s sexual harassment and assault. Report that pervert and don’t let him around your babies.
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Playfully smack daughter on butt? Like lightly playing around? With diaper on? I’m a little confused 😳
Vee··
Мама двоих (младенец)
@girlymamaa yes he was my boyfriend
X··
just to be clear... your boyfriend smacked/grabbed your daughters butt? Is it also his daughter? And you moved? So that means you’ve broken up because I’m hoping you’re not allowing that behavior. 🤞🏼you did well by moving and ending things and not allowing anyone (father or not) to touch your precious babies. That’s definitely not normal or should be apart of any “culture”.
Vee··
Мама двоих (младенец)
@girlymamaa thank you I was mad didnt feel comfortable there and took my things and left now he is under investigation and also he is acting like he was just playing and it's no big deal and he us acting like it was a misunderstanding
Harley Quinn ·
I don’t know?
Vee··
Мама двоих (младенец)
Me too
LoveMeForEver19·
Hmm i don’t think it’s a cultural thing. But I’m also a firm believer that children should have body autonomy . Ask her consent if she wants to get playfully slapped on butt. 🙈
Vee··
Мама двоих (младенец)
Agreed
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Well I’m Mexican and this is definitely not part of our “culture”
Vee··
Мама двоих (младенец)
I wanted to hear that because I have many Mexican friends and now this specific Mexican person said it was from thier culture which I strongly doubted
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yeah shes definitely wrong lol let her know that so she doesn’t do it to your daughter :O
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Мама двоих (младенец)
I did believe me I moved also
Victoria ·
Мама дочки (1 год)
I’m Mexican and I’m always spanking not hard and grabbing her legs because she is chunky drives me nuts. I don’t do it hard jus enough to get my crave over
Victoria ··
Мама дочки (1 год)
@verguinia, yeah, but again it’s not hard it’s like a love tap
Vee··
Мама двоих (младенец)
@tori_portillo not squeeze and smack ?
Victoria ··
Мама дочки (1 год)
Iv never seen him squeeze her but
HazelXoco ·
Мама сына (2 года)
Hmm no but I think I know what’way shes meaning it like for instance if my son doesn’t want to play with others I would give him a little playful slap in the butt like meaning go play go have fun . Although it’s not a Mexican culture thing .
Angela··
@verguinia, like how all the time? What is he saying when he’s doing it? Idk my husband does not play with the kids the same as I do. Every guy is different tho. Is it just when he’s being carinoso?
Angela··
if you feel uncomfortable with it mama I would say tell him to stop. If it was playing around spanking ok but the squeezing nah.
Vee··
Мама двоих (младенец)
it happened only 3x I spoke up about it
Amber Jacq ·
No, it’s not a culture thing. I wouldn’t let anyone playfully smack your daughters butt that is crossing a boundary that shouldn’t be crossed. It’s a pervert thing, it’s considered sexual harassment and sexual assault.
Angela·
I’m Mexican and will playfully spank my daughter and son. Not my bigger boys anymore but when they were little yes. I will say want me to “pank you” lol idk jus if we are playing around.🤷🏼♀️ I wouldn’t allow anyone else to do it unless their dad though but he doesn’t play like that.
dawn·
Only culture that is, is pervert culture. Especially to a 13year old. You don’t playfully tap a 13yr old butt.
Thisisfeeney··
It’s wrong for any age but was it done to her baby or the 9yo
Vee··
Мама двоих (младенец)
Exactly
Thisisfeeney·
Y’all it wasn’t just a playful smack. It was also a squeeze. I got nauseous reading your comment about it. A grown man should not be squeezing and playfully smacking your baby girls butt. That’s sexual harassment and assault. Report that pervert and don’t let him around your babies.
Vee··
Мама двоих (младенец)
I did I'm in my sister house and Acs is investigating he said he never did the squeeze but I know he did
dawn··
I didn’t even reach all the comments. Ugh
Vee··
Мама двоих (младенец)
it's a crazy story I'm still confused about everything cant believe it happened