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I found out my boyfriend was looking for head mainly but sex on mutiple sites it's the first time hes ever strayed and I know its cause of the lack of sex in our relationship I also got to where I wasnt cleaning or even got out of bed [ I just found out I have gestational diabetes ] which is why I was so sick I'm currently 7 months pregnant with his first child. he said he thought I was cheating cause of my lack of affection to Him

he deleted all of his social media let me sync his gmail in my phone and even had me download a app that shows me his location at all times.
I'm also allowed to freely go through his phone...
Plus he hands me his paychecks now also.

I never thought I'd stay in a relationship like this but I really think hes putting the effort to gain my trust again .. hes even talking about marriage to show his commitment to me now.

I guess I'm looking for other women that was able to forgive and be happy again?

with everything hes doing I feel like he should get another chance  any similar situations ladys??
25.04.2019
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kodijean
kodijean
@momtooneboy but I also know hes trying to fix us it's a shitty situation
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kodijean
kodijean
@kodijean @momtooneboy
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momtooneboy
momtooneboy
@kodijean, you can tell he’s trying.. it will definitely still be difficult until you guys can move
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kodijean
kodijean
@momtooneboy right. I think the ultimate test is after I have this baby
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momtooneboy
momtooneboy
I would say if you want to, try to work it out. It sounds like he’s trying. The whole neighbor thing though would be super hard...
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kodijean
kodijean
It is it's a constant reminder
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kodijean
kodijean
He keeps trying to remind me we will only be here for less then a year and we can move but it really doesnt help.
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kodijean
kodijean
Honestly what is making this hard to forgive is one of the girls he found on pof was my next door neighbor and shes disgusting he was trying to get head from her. It's made me hate living here
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symantha_chandler
symantha_chandler
You got. This girl. You guys can work it out. :)
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symantha_chandler
symantha_chandler
After my daughter was born I was a horrible wife. I said mean hateful things and made my husband believe I didn't want him but it was just the hormones talking. He also was texting a girl but that's as far as it got. It was so shocking and hurtful because my faith in his love for had never been tested and I never ever doubted him before that. We did all the things you talked about him doing for you and here we are 4 years later pregnant with our next and happier then ever.
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kodijean
kodijean
I feel like I got so comfortable I let go of myself and I know I did I didnt think hed actually stray its devastating when they do. I started taking care of myself again to.
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lakota-winyan
lakota-winyan
I haven’t been there with my husband, but I think I would try to work it out. If it wasn’t a continuous thing. We are human and we make mistakes.
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lakota-winyan
lakota-winyan
@kodijean, that’s most peoples first initial reaction. And it’s normally the one and toxic relationships.
Just remember if you are going to forgive him you have to truly forgive him. Or it won’t work out
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kodijean
kodijean
@lakota-winyan right I know that I just know I will definitely be looking through his stuff alot
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lakota-winyan
lakota-winyan
@kodijean, good luck. I hope y’all able to put this in the past and move forward happy again.
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