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I found out my boyfriend was looking for head mainly but sex on mutiple sites it's the first time hes ever strayed and I…

I found out my boyfriend was looking for head mainly but sex on mutiple sites it's the first time hes ever strayed and I know its cause of the lack of sex in our relationship I also got to where I wasnt cleaning or even got out of bed [ I just found out I have gestational diabetes ] which is why I was so sick I'm currently 7 months pregnant with his first child. he said he thought I was cheating cause of my lack of affection to Him

he deleted all of his social media let me sync his gmail in my phone and even had me download a app that shows me his location at all times.

I'm also allowed to freely go through his phone...

Plus he hands me his paychecks now also.

I never thought I'd stay in a relationship like this but I really think hes putting the effort to gain my trust again .. hes even talking about marriage to show his commitment to me now.

I guess I'm looking for other women that was able to forgive and be happy again?

with everything hes doing I feel like he should get another chance  any similar situations ladys??

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kodijean

kodi

@momtooneboy but I also know hes trying to fix us it's a shitty situation

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kodijean

kodi

@kodijean @momtooneboy

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momtooneboy

baileyМама сына-младенца

@kodijean, you can tell he’s trying.. it will definitely still be difficult until you guys can move

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kodijean

kodi

@momtooneboy right. I think the ultimate test is after I have this baby

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momtooneboy

baileyМама сына-младенца

I would say if you want to, try to work it out. It sounds like he’s trying. The whole neighbor thing though would be super hard...

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kodijean

kodi

It is it's a constant reminder

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kodijean

kodi

He keeps trying to remind me we will only be here for less then a year and we can move but it really doesnt help.

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kodijean

kodi

Honestly what is making this hard to forgive is one of the girls he found on pof was my next door neighbor and shes disgusting he was trying to get head from her. It's made me hate living here

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symantha_chandler

Samantha GrovesМама дочки (3 года), беременна (6 нед.)

You got. This girl. You guys can work it out. :)

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symantha_chandler

Samantha GrovesМама дочки (3 года), беременна (6 нед.)

After my daughter was born I was a horrible wife. I said mean hateful things and made my husband believe I didn't want him but it was just the hormones talking. He also was texting a girl but that's as far as it got. It was so shocking and hurtful because my faith in his love for had never been tested and I never ever doubted him before that. We did all the things you talked about him doing for you and here we are 4 years later pregnant with our next and happier then ever.

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kodijean

kodi

I feel like I got so comfortable I let go of myself and I know I did I didnt think hed actually stray its devastating when they do. I started taking care of myself again to.

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lakota-winyan

dawnМама двоих (1 год, 2 года)

I haven’t been there with my husband, but I think I would try to work it out. If it wasn’t a continuous thing. We are human and we make mistakes.

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lakota-winyan

dawnМама двоих (1 год, 2 года)

@kodijean, that’s most peoples first initial reaction. And it’s normally the one and toxic relationships.

Just remember if you are going to forgive him you have to truly forgive him. Or it won’t work out

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kodijean

kodi

@lakota-winyan right I know that I just know I will definitely be looking through his stuff alot

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lakota-winyan

dawnМама двоих (1 год, 2 года)

@kodijean, good luck. I hope y’all able to put this in the past and move forward happy again.

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Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?

Who else has financial issues within their relationship?? Or am I just lucky 🙄🙄

Who else has financial issues within their relationship?? Or am I just lucky 🙄🙄 Not sure if I'm being just mean or what. But my SO used $160 from me this morning. I gave him my bank card because he needed $60 to get material for work. His boss was going to give it back to him at the end of the day. So instead of $60 he took out $160. Which I was a little pissed. (One of the reasons I just can't let him use my card. I have to go get the money from the atm myself if I'm giving it to him) then, tonight he asked for $20 incase his boss didn't give it to him. So I gave him my card not even thinking because I had kids running around me. I asked if he could pick up a few things that were out of and told him he could use my card if he has too. And I even told him not to get the expensive brands or anything m generic is fine. So he does. But when he does he decides to go Easter shopping for the kids. (Not sure if he used to my card or not) but if he did, I'd be even more pissed. He knows I have bills to pay on top of giving my son's school money that I owe them. He goes to a private school and I haven't paid in 5 months. It's towards the end of school now so I need to pay it. He knows this month I am extremely tight because of the school, im already in debt and my credit score sucks. I have been trying not to get in more debt and actually fix my credit. I'm so frustrated. It's like we have different priorities and different ideas on this. I feel like I'm completely drowning!!