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momofeach
Kayla·Мама дочки (9 лет)
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Soooo my last job was super cool about me breast feeding and pumping. I feel like this job is going to give me trouble.

There’s legit no free place to pump except for my office. Which is a quality lab. There’s no emergency to check parts or no emergency to where anybody would need the lab in that time frame. Some days nobody comes in at all. I think they’re just making my life complicated.

22.04.2019
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chelseaz
Chels Z·Многодетная мама (5 детей)

This email rubs me the wrong way. Seems very unprofessional and discouraging. Maybe you should ask for a location to be provided that won’t ever be needed for something else/will 100% be available during your pumping times. I like how he/she basically said we are OK with you pumping as long as you do these things. I wouldn’t give a flying flip who is OK or NOT OK with you pumping. This email did nothing but provide extra stress that you don’t need.

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iuiblessing2018
IUIMom18·Мама двоих (2 года, 6 лет)

Breastfeeding and pumping is hard enough without this added stress.

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householdceo
Kristen ·Мама троих детей

At my job you can only do it in your car. No where to go all they do is give you longer breaks. That does seem unprofessional im sorry. Sadly they aren't the only company who seem like this.

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momofeach
Kayla·Мама дочки (9 лет)

@k_e_s0219, @cams, unfortunately HR isn’t in charge here like most companies. She basically just does pay roll. It’s a privately owned and ran company. So they basically do what they want. There’s two main managers above my boss that he has to report to. So I guess that’s what they told him when he asked. There’s nobody else here that pumps or that has young kids. So I don’t think they’ve ever had anybody do it before. I’ve seen them make up reasons to fire people in the past. That weren’t true. So I’m afraid if I say anything else that’s what they will do to me

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k_e_s0219
Kacy Schneider ·Мама двоих (5 лет, 7 лет)

I would be pissed if my boss did that to me! Is there anyone above their head you can chat with? Maybe HR? You’d think in this day of age people would not act like this. It’s already ridiculous that maturity leave is so short! And now they want to give issues on how you choose to feed your baby!

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cams
Cams ·Мама троих детей

I agree. This email should be sent to HR.

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chelseaz
Chels Z·Многодетная мама (5 детей)

This email rubs me the wrong way. Seems very unprofessional and discouraging. Maybe you should ask for a location to be provided that won’t ever be needed for something else/will 100% be available during your pumping times. I like how he/she basically said we are OK with you pumping as long as you do these things. I wouldn’t give a flying flip who is OK or NOT OK with you pumping. This email did nothing but provide extra stress that you don’t need.

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itskarina
🪴📚·Мама двоих (2 года, 7 лет)

@mamaste, Seriously like are you kidding me? I’m mad for her. That is completely ridiculous.

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mamaste

@rina414,

I feel the same way.

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momofeach
Kayla·Мама дочки (9 лет)

@mamaste, other management. The HR here isn’t in control. It’s privately owned and ran company. Just under 60 employees

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iuiblessing2018
IUIMom18·Мама двоих (2 года, 6 лет)

Breastfeeding and pumping is hard enough without this added stress.

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momofeach
Kayla·Мама дочки (9 лет)

Yess! 👏

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iuiblessing2018
IUIMom18·Мама двоих (2 года, 6 лет)

It’s the law to let you have a space to pump.

I’ve found it really helpful to get a lunchbox to put my milk and supplies in and I have wipes to do a quick wipe of my flanges. I just keep it all in the fridge so I don’t have to wash anything until I get home.

I tried to be discreet about it but apparently a do not disturb sign isn’t obvious enough and people will still walk in since there is no lock on the room I use. Everyone knows what’s going on now since one of the men who walked in on me setting up told everyone don’t go in when the sign is up.

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itskarina
🪴📚·Мама двоих (2 года, 7 лет)

@momofeach, Can you leave the cooler in the regular fridge where everyone else keeps their lunch? Did they say no to that? I don’t see why that would be a problem.

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momofeach
Kayla·Мама дочки (9 лет)

@rina414, I could but I don’t want people to bother it here. So I can bring in a mini fridge an keep by my desk.

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itskarina
🪴📚·Мама двоих (2 года, 7 лет)

@momofeach, Got ya.

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mamaste

Very unprofessional this person should be ashamed of themselves.

You should keep this just in case they do anything and besides it doesn’t seem legal for them to send that in the first place.

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momofeach
Kayla·Мама дочки (9 лет)

I agree. But that’s my boss. There’s no other place to pump here. No spare rooms. I don’t see why I have to be so secretive about it anyways. It’s freaking natural.

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mamaste

@momofeach,

I’m sorry that your boss is treating you unfairly.

I’d just pump wherever I can and if it’s a problem then that’s their issue.

I highly doubt they could fire you over pumping and if they do you could most likely sue them for wrongful termination.

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