If a closed off person who has many walls up and she has let them down for you (first person to…

If a closed off person who has many walls up and she has let them down for you (first person to ever) then over time, things happen to build them back up. It is 120% harder for her to let them back down again momatter how much she wants to and no matter how little it gets let down and 150% for you to knock them down again. It's just how it is. And I have not realized that till tonight, after thinking logically and putting things into perspective.