ADVICE NEEDED: my best friend is my youngest daughters god mother. But she lives in NJ and I live in GA. She has only seen her in person ONCE when she was 2 months . She’s now 19 months. My best friend also has 3 kids who hasn’t seen my daughter at all!! I have a week long trip planned to NJ next month. Part of me wants to use that trip to bring my daughter along so she can see family up there that hasn’t seen her as well as her “God family” BUT I also want to use that trip as a mini vacation and leave her at home with Dad. I’m SUPER torn!!!! I need help 😩😩😩