I think Have been knowing this for years but I always felt like I can just deal with it because of my kids These past…
I think Have been knowing this for years but I always felt like I can just deal with it because of my kids
These past few weeks I’m at a point where I feel like I’m done I don’t want to try anymore I’m fed up at everything.....
And I’ve been vocal about it to my SO and I’ve never have maybe it’s my fault for not speaking up sooner but when ever I have in the past it he usually gets upset walks away never wants to deal with it so I stopped trying and kinda accepted it 🤷🏻♀️😕 because of the kids
But after last nights argument and today’s
I wish I could go back and leave when they were younger it would of been easier for the kids but I was scared I didn’t have anyone no friends and family to go to I look back and think how stupid am I?
Am I like this now because of resentment I feel towards him?😭
He said I could leave if I wanted to that he wasn’t going to hold me back that he doesn’t want to be in a fake relationship but the way he says it makes me feel as I am the one breaking up the home 😭 does that make sense? If it isn’t his way it’s not right all the time
I felt free for a little bit then I fear of not being together came in this is what I feel I want most the time but I want to end the relationship in a mutual feelings
Should I continue to keep quiet idk I know if we stay together I’m not putting effort in this anymore
Sorry if doesn’t make sense to who ever reads this
And also every time this does come up he always tells me to go find someone different 🙄🙄
Like no that’s not what I want I don’t want anyone else or shouldn’t want anyone else if I’m in a relationship with you
This has been both of our only relationships
dawn·
Maybe leave for a little bit. It sounds like he is a bit of a narcissist. Making you feel like you’re breaking up the family but he isn’t trying to take the necessary steps to make it better. A relationship takes two to make it work. If it’s one sided maybe you should leave for a bit. Sit with him one night with a paper and pencil and tell him you guys are going to have to figure out a co-parenting plan. Ask him if this relationship is even worth trying to make happy again. If he says yeah tell him upfront and honest what you need from him. If he says no, there’s your answer. Walk away.
justme··
Мама двоих (6 лет, 8 лет)
Thank you yea I don’t think sitting with him will work it never really does it mostly always back fires 😕
KLove·
He sounds like a narcissist.
My daughter’s father is. It’s a battle of back and forth. I left during pregnancy and he guilted me back in. Often I feel like I wish I could just leave, but he “love bombs” me and “gaslights” me. They make you feel like you’re the bad one in the relationship or like you’re going crazy. I’m living my life in circles of emotional abuse and verbal abuse and then pretend love (or so it feels like) Girl, if you’re stronger than me, get out. I know it’s easier said than done, but they’re nutso 🤪😞
justme··
Мама двоих (6 лет, 8 лет)
Definitely easier said than done 😭
Yes that’s how I’m feeling like the crazy one
Early in our relationship was lots of emotional abuse I think back like I’m so stupid why didn’t I just go 😭
harmony·
Мама двоих (3 года, 8 лет)
Think he wants to make you feel guiltyfor wantingto ens things if your not happy in a relationshipyou ahould definitely not stay when kids are involved it will only hirt them more in the end you deserve to be happy and should never let a man stop you your kids one day will realise u fid that for good reasons not to hurt them but make life better for you and them good luck in whatever u decide xx