I am happy bout this baby I really am but tbh we didnt expect to get pregnant so quick I mean come on first actual try and it happened? We weren't prepared but financially and mentally prepared it's a toss my bf just got chosen for a promotion he is training and it comes with as much ot as he wants and possibly raise unsure atm and we are making payments to a car that has a tranny out his mom thinks we shouldn't have tried I'm trying not to let her get in my head but I understand why she would be concerned but she didnt have a right to tell me what happened was mistake and should consider a different option right? Cause I and my bf and kids are happy isnt that what matters and yes I know we can take care of all the kids with ease so I dont see where the problem is