I was my grandma in laws caregiver. She is a 300 plus pound lady. I'd somehow lift her to shower her and lift her off the toilet. It's a hard job, and I did it with my daughter there. It was stressful sometimes.
It's definitely hard. I had to take care of my husband's grandmother while everyone worked. She hated all women. I had enough when she put her hands on me.
It’s so hard ☹️ I did it full time a while ago but when I got pregnant with my third it got too difficult for me. Now I’m pregnant with my fourth and I can’t 😭