Hi all, I’m sorta new to this whole app! So.. my husband and I have been separated for 10 months or so now, he cheated and moved in with his now girlfriend and we have tried to maintain the best schedule for our two girls. He so difficult to deal with. I try to only communicate if it has something to do with the girls.. We are currently in the process of divorce and all I want if for my girls to maintain and happy stable life. Around the time that he left, I met someone who has grown to be a significant part of my life. We are not in any relationship but I feel almost as he is Meant to be part of my life. I’m nervous to rush into anything especially after my past and what I’m presently going through. I don’t want to lose Him, but it’s hard to explain 🤷🏼♀️ as I’m just not the best with words... any ideas how to show/tell him that he’s important to me, I just don’t wanna rush into something?
With my experience If I could go back I would def NOT rush into the relationship I’m in now. We are married but same thing happened to me and we rushed things and I regret it now. I wish I had spent more time on my kids and giving them more time to get through the divorce.
Nothing wrong with hanging out occasionally and letting them know you care but aren’t ready yet
Thank you 😊. I’ve been separated for about 10 months and I would be nice to float the idea of seeing someone again, I just don’t want to push something on my kids. They have seen what their father did and I rather them see their mother go about Moving in a healthier way if that makes sense.