What would you do if you offered your sister a happier life in New York, than in the nobody town she lives in Oregon…

@miaheka, yeah something isn’t adding up there she shouldn’t not move for a better life because of your dog

I feel like everything we’re offering her should be way more of an incentive and desire to move here, but she keeps bringing up piper. 😣

@miaheka, Just keep trying to persuade her I’m sure she’ll come around eventually is there anyone else who can also help you persuade her? Maybe if a few people are telling her she’ll decide to leave

I don’t think she’s holding onto anything or anyone. I know that the people she’s going back to are going to make her stay there and guilt trip her, and etc... 😣

I don’t think she’s holding onto anything or anyone. I know that the people she’s going back to are going to make her stay there and guilt trip her, and etc... 😣

Just keep trying to persuade her I’m sure she’ll come around eventually is there anyone else who can also help you persuade her? Maybe if a few people are telling her she’ll decide to leave

It just doesn’t make any sense.😣

it doesn’t to us because we aren’t in her head. I doubt even she knows why

yeah, that’s probably true.😣

I’m not getting rid of my piper. I got her when she was 8 weeks, and she’s been my baby and biggest support when I didn’t have my actual baby and SO. She literally saved me from suicide 3 years ago, and my baby boy loves her to death, she’s not just a dog. She’s part of our family, and she’s not going anywhere.

I feel like everything we’re offering her should be way more of an incentive and desire to move here, but she keeps bringing up piper. 😣

yeah something isn’t adding up there she shouldn’t not move for a better life because of your dog

Exactly! I feel like she’s using piper as an excuse, and refusing to see how much piper means to me and my little family. She’s not just a dog to us, she’s part of our family, and my sister doesn’t see that.

@miaheka, I thought about the repercussions of re-homing piper and my sister backing out, and it’s just not worth it. Piper means a lot to me and my baby and my SO, more than she thinks... and I don’t think she’ll ever understand that.

Yep! Sounds like she is just happy to bitch and complain about where she is and unwilling to make a change. If she had some real reason for not wanting your dog, I'm sure you could work around those issues.

We have a dog and wouldn't give him up for anyone. He is part of the family and we make sure he is well cared for, as is our two kids. We have family who is allergic to dogs and when they stay over we make sure they stay in the room that the dog isnt allowed to go into (we shut the door). We also do a deep clean and the pup gets his bath and everything out of the home before they come to keep allergies down. We provide meds if needed or requested. And just keep him elsewhere during the times when they are over. If they had to live her we would work out a plan to keep them healthy and everyone happy.

It certainly shows you that she is unwilling to really move. And this isnt about your Piper.

We do the exact same thing! And she isn’t even allergic to dogs.🤦🏻‍♀️ I’m definitely starting to think it has to be something more than just piper, and she’s just using piper as an excuse. 😣

Curious. Why is that?

I don’t like dogs.

My dog sheds during the winter, but all winter dogs do.🤦🏻‍♀️😂 She’s also part wolf, which is an issue? I don’t know... I feel like she’s using piper as an excuse. 🤦🏻‍♀️