I have two beautiful babies. One boy 2.5 years and one girl 4 months. Debating on stopping at 2 kids or to go for 3? Any advice?! I am so torn.

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Melinda Westad · Answer

I am stopping at 2. It makes more sense financially and we want to travel with our kids which is much easier when you have 2 adults and 2 kids. Both my husband and I come from big families and we grew up struggling and we don’t want that for our kids. As much as I’d love a third, it’s not the best idea. I’m already 35 and I’m tired and I don’t think I could be pregnant again. So my husband got a vasectomy at the end of last year.

Emily Costa · Answer

This is my husbands reasoning as well. The logical side 😃 and I’m the emotional side

Monica · Answer

So Awesome that our kids are the same age :) my daughter is 2.5 and my son is 4 months old.  I’m also torn on the decision to have 3rd!

Emily Costa · Answer

Maybe as time goes by we will have a better idea

Jennifer · Answer

I say go for it. You have the desire there because God put it there.

Queen Meeks · Answer

Only you will know what your limit is, mama. I know I’m good with one. How do you feel about a third? Do you desire a third child? What about your significant other?

Emily Costa · Answer

That’s the main problem. I’m not sure how I feel. I guess time will tell. My husband keeps bringing up that 2 is good, alluding to the fact that we are done.

Queen Meeks · Answer

@emily.elsholz, have you guys talked about a third?

Emily Costa · Answer

@queenmeeks, I tease him about having another and he’s like 2 is good lol so I think if I really wanted one he would be ok. But I wouldn’t want to force it.

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