My husband and I both work. I can’t be a stay at home mom. I’d go crazy! I need to get out of the house and talk to adults and not have whining kids in my ear all day. Of course I miss them but I’d go crazy being with them all day. Plus I like making my own income and not having to rely on my husband for everything. We split everything.

I think everyone should do what works best for their family. We both worked/went to school up until our son was 2.5. Now I’m a stay at home mom and it works best for our current situation.

It’s up to the couple, but I personally need to work to get away from my husband and kids. 😭 I love them so much but I enjoy adult interactions where I’m not constantly told about poop or being hungry. I make more than my husband does hourly but he works more hours than I do. I also like that he works at night because that means I don’t have to share the bed or hear him snore. 😂 I tried the stay at home mom thing and it SUCKEDDDDDDDDD so bad, I hated it.

My husband makes good money and I stay home.
But as soon as I finish school and get my teaching certification, I’m going to get a job as well, just because I want to.

My opinion is that couples should decide what works for them. But I do not think a woman “should” stay home with the kids. She can if she wants to & if it works for the family.

What works for us is me staying home. May not be for everyone but it’s best for us 😁

My boyfriend and I aren't married but he doesn't care if I work or not because he believes that the man should be the provider.

But I am dying to finish my classes and get a job because I want to help him out.

I think being married and both husband and wife working is a great set up 🤷🏾‍♀️ I mean, I think wife staying home with the kids and husband working is a great set up. I think wife working and husband staying home with the kids is a great set up. Why do you ask, what's on your mind?

I think my opinion only matters for my family. For us, me staying home with the kids works best. But I cannot give my opinion on someone else’s situation and what works best for them. Also, it’s none of my damn business what others decide to do. As long as your kids are loved, clothed, fed and clean, you do you boo boo 😁

Personally, I think to each their own.

I know couples that both work and I know couples that one stays home and it works for them. What do you think?